If my husband used to lie and swore to me he wouldn't anymore and now I found out that he is going to lie to me about somewhere he will be in the near future with work would you confront him first or wait until the lie has actually taken place(meaning after he goes)?
2007-02-26 09:04:18 · 18 answers · asked by confused one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wait until yu have prof
2007-02-26 09:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for nothing. Divorce him now.
In any relationship, trust is very important. If you do not and cannot trust him, you should find someone that you do trust.
What?? Too harsh? Would you rather I told you to chase after him, confront him while in the act, have a big Jerry Springer moment and THEN divorce him?
I'm trying to save you a lot of heartache.
Quit. Dump him. Go fishing.
2007-02-26 17:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rev Phred 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely wait until it actually happens. I know from experience, that if you bust them beforehand, and he is a good liar then he will come up with a good story to make you look like an idiot.
So, please let him get to where he is going and then bust him dead in the middle. Do it in a way that he has no way of getting out of it with another lie.
Then, it may be time to move on, if he can't be honest with you.
2007-02-26 17:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would wait until the lie has taken place.That way you can really get him for telling a lie.My husband has a habit of telling lies to me also.He had told me that he wants to change but I am still waiting.I don't like anyone who lies to me.
2007-02-26 17:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait until he actually tells you the lie. Then look him right in the eyes and ask 'are you sure?'. If he says yes and you're sure he's lying bust him!!
Tori
2007-02-26 17:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Incognito 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all why is he planning on lying in the first place...you should confront him and let him know that you know he is about to seriously hurt your trust. This might bring him around. good luck
2007-02-26 17:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by ROBERT C 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have caught mine in a lot of em to teh point I DO NOT BELIEV A WORD HE SAYS
once a lier always a lier... catch him in it it will give ya some thing
to laugh at later
2007-02-26 17:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait and catch him in a lie.
2007-02-26 17:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know the old saying, give 'em enough rope........
he was lying when he swore he wouldn't lie to you any more
2007-02-26 17:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he lies, make sure theres proof, confront him, then divorce him. LOL. This type of man cannot be trusted.
2007-02-26 17:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by ian@blueice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront him with what you know. Don't allow him to make a fool out of you.
2007-02-26 17:06:52 · answer #11 · answered by Leah~Ariana is due Oct. 09~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋