My husband pressures me CONSTANTLY about anal sex. I've never done it, he's the only one I've ever been with, and I never even thought of it. It's not appealing, and one time he almost tried it and I hurt. How do I get him to stop bothering me, or is there a way I can get used to it and maybe do it ONCE? Should I stay my ground? I really don't want to do it, but he keeps pressuring me and talks about it all day long how I don't do it.
2007-02-26 08:54:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do not need to do anything that you feel is wrong or you are uncomfortable with. Your husband obviously has a concept that this would be interesting, probably because it is a taboo area.
It is only worth exploring this area if it is of interest to you both, even if you are somewhat afraid.
In the second link to Wikipedia they describe one position where he lies down and you lower yourself. This gives you control of everything dependent upon how you feel so if you want to experiment maybe just tell him you are willing to try but set conditions for the process, agree that failure is not an issue for apportioning blame and experiment.
Good luck.
2007-02-26 19:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-27 10:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋