OK, I got this friend that I sometimes hang out with in gym. I don't think I really like him romanticly but he makes me laugh and I have more fun around him. I always want to hang around him but how do I become his friend (or heck girlfriend) without looking desprate or like I'm stalking him? I got to the point where I was going to ask for his E-mail but then after gym I ran into him at the grocery store and my luck he was on almost evey isle as me! It was so awkward. Then when we went sledding we were messing with each other and later we talked a bit. I can't tell if he likes me as a friend or something. What should I do or say? I see him every week for 2 hours at gym because we're both homeschooled and 13. Help Please! i want to hang out with him more. How do I do it?
2007-02-26 08:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by stargirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you want to be his girlfriend but it's hard to make someone choose you to be a romantic interest.
The good news is: you see him at the gym. Do your best to always look extra nice when you go to the gym. Be as friendly in a casual way as you can be. Be friendly with his friends. People like to do things in groups and if you can possibly become part of a group that he's in, you'll see him more.
All of this is not stalking. He has to be the one to give you clues that he likes you. By being friendly, you already show him that you could possibly like him. Let him make the next move.
2007-03-05 00:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a creative way to do it. Think of something he'd be interested in, then find an article about it on the internet. Ask for his email and tell him you need it because you found a cool article about "x" that you think he'd like to see. That way you can get conversations going on email and maybe it will develop into something from there.
Otherwise, you could simply say, "I could really use a Coke. Do you want to go get one with me?" He'll probably say yes, but if not, you will not have embarrassed yourself.
2007-03-06 06:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by cowabunga mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become close friends and then when the time is righ ask him iof he wants to go out sometimes and if he said yes then hes gonna have to hang around u more often and if u dont want him to think ur desprate then tell him that u used to have a boyfriend but u didnt have much in common and that is y u broke up with him LOL PICK MY ANSWER BEST KK
2007-03-05 10:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actual it appears like she does have some lingering emotions for her ex even if she doesnt opt for to admit it or sense that way in any respect. Why else might want to she care if she damage her ex by seperating him and his pal. perhaps she doesnt opt for to this factor everybody afterall she is merely getting out of a relationship perhaps she must be unmarried. She fairly doesnt might want to do something because its her existence even if you sense this new guy is sturdy for her it won't be able to be the right time. Dont stress her into something she doesnt opt for to do. courting isnt merely oh you want me i love you theres alot of emotional readyless that comes into play.
2016-10-17 09:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by forker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep it going..you dont wanna rush the situation..keep it cool..maybe later on he'll be the one to ask for your no or eadd..goodluck girl..:]
2007-03-06 00:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like him romantically and don't want to move towards sex with him then don't go there..hello?
read what you just wrote... just be his friend!
2007-02-26 08:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how you feel...he probably feels the same way...go for it girl...:)
2007-03-05 01:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him
2007-03-06 06:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by redwrestlingblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋