Why do i find it so difficult to be myself around other people and find i cannot be myself, why am i so shy and depressed? What can i do, i feel i have a lot of hidden talent and want others to know the real me, but i feel if i did show them me i would be shy and embarrased, i worry far too much about what others think of me, what do you recommend? I want to be ME and not be someone else!! I want to chat to people i dont know and for people to like me for ME not for some person i pretend to be, i dont want to put on acts just to get ppl to like me anymore!!!
2007-02-26 08:50:51 · 7 answers · asked by robertapdixon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont know...im also shy....maybe that's why i dont have any friends at school
2007-02-26 08:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by 0110111001101111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what is a ppl? You should always be yourself. Never pretent to be someone else because it'll never work. Be proud of who you are. I know I am. Get to know people, make some friends. Go to places that you feel comfrotable and hang with others that like the same things that you like or maybe you'll find something that you like that you had no idea.
2007-02-26 08:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wha? Pardon me for noticing but your age is peeking through.
The first thing you learn when you get more mature and older is that it doesn't matter if all people like you.
Look for one that YOU like. From there on, make sure that they know and approve of the real you. If they are more worried about what others will say if they go out with you, drop them real fast. They will never notice you because they are so wrapped up in themselves. (kinda like you are now) The secret is to find someone you don't have to pretend for them to approve.
It ain't gonna happen the first time, but as you get better, you will happen across someone who has taken an interest in you.
Now, that is someone worth knowing and learning about. See, you are starting from somewhere in common; both of you are thinking about you. And, you are going to the same place, over to thier house to learn about them.
2007-02-26 09:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your self pep talks in the mirror if you have to. Take baby steps like just saying hello to random people in the grocery store or various places. Once you get your confidence up, you should be able to be yourself in front of whoever and care less about what people think of you. Good luck! Most people are just as self conscious as you are, they just hide it better.
2007-02-26 08:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by akirk7278 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem but now i know it s really hard to find someone who understands u ,listens to u and likes you just the way you are. you have to wait and when you'll find someone special you'll be alot happier about it
2007-02-26 08:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by io 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are you,really?
you must be yourself but in the same time to be polite and respectful to other people because we don't live in the jungle
2007-02-26 08:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by ParaskeveTuriya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means your too self centered
2007-02-26 08:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋