we had sex three times with no protection.
the first two times he said he pulled it out in time.
the last time he didn't pull it out in time.
my period is in about 16 days.
i can't go to the doctor b/c i CAN'T tell my mom.
and please don't sit there and tell me how stupid i am,
because i know!
please give me some advice!
i am only 14.
2007-02-26 08:38:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The chances are very good that you are pregnant, just as they are any time you don't use protection -even once. Your chances of having an STD are also very good.
Are you trying to get pregnant? If not, then why on Earth would you not use protection? I am not saying you are stupid, but you need to take responsibility for your body and protect yourself from pregnancy and stds, both of which could have results that last the rest of your life -and at 14 that is a very long time.
First of all, you can go to Planned Parenthood or another women's clinic and confidentially get birth control, std testing and pregnancy testing. 1-800-230-7526 is the national # for Planned Parenthood. Secondly, know that you cannot count on a man (or in this case, boy) to keep you safe from disease or free from pregnancy. Please take control of your own body and sexuality. You have many, many years left to have sex and trust me, it is much better at an older age. And with someone you love and who loves you. (Someone who would insist on protecting you.)
You can also go buy a home test, they are pretty reliable before your period is due.
Good luck! I hope everything works out for you in the future. And unless your mother is abusive, you may want to consider telling her if it turns out that you are pregnant. She probably would want to be there to support you.
Take care of yourself! Make good choices and keep your chin up no matter what. :)
2007-02-26 08:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by storm_in_teacup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you've had unprotected sex, then yes, your chances of getting pregnant are very high. I won't lecture you. We all make mistakes.Even if the guy pulls out, you should be aware that there is a chance of you getting pregnant from his precum. You're young but you can still go see a doctor. Perhaps schedule an appointmet with a Family Planning clinic or Planned Parenthood. They can be anonymous and are very helpful. You can't take a pregnancy test until your period is late, so until then, I suggest you try to think over your risky behavior. You should definitely go and get tested for both pregnancy and STD's because a guy who uses no protection with you at such a young age obviously doesn't care much about you. I'm sorry you're in such a situation, but there's nothing more you can do but sit and wait. As to not being able to tell your mom, you will be surprised at how understanding parents can be.
2007-02-26 08:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by keonli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this happened less than 72 hours ago, then it is not too late to go and get a morning after pill, but you must do it now!
If that time has passed then I'm afraid all you can do is wait and see, take a pregnancy test 5 days after your period(that is if your period doesn't come)if it turns out you are pregnant then you can have a medical abortion sibce you found out so early, that would just involve taking 2 pills and will not be that traumatic. Depending on where you live I think you can get an abortion without you praents knowldege as long as you act intelligent and like you know what you are talking about.
Good luck!
2007-02-26 08:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you need to know that just b/c he pulled out you can still get pregnant pre-*** carries sperm as well-so don't use that as a form of Birth control. however, you usually ovulate around 14 days from your last period say your period came in the middle of the month most will ovulate around the end-but don't go by that either b/c every ones body's are different and it is just an estimate.
it is still possible but nit highly-just be careful and get on some form of birth control, or not having sex until your ready- if your scared about it take better precautions and not pulling out it doesn't work.
2007-02-26 08:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by emery_sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your periods are normal you could have a good chance in getting pregnant because sperm can live inside you for 3 to 5 days and you are most fertile 14 days before your next period or 2 weeks after the first day of your last period.
2007-02-26 08:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by A friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Semen lasts for up to 5 days inside you so there's a high possibility you could be pregnant. Being 14 you're likely to be very fertile as well. Talk to your Mom if you feel you can, or is there a counselor at school who can help you out. Please see a Dr. There will be one you can see confidentially.
2007-02-26 09:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by pottyrox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a good chance you can be pregnant, girls usually ovulate 14 days after the first day of their period. You are able to get pregnant for pre-ejulation
2007-02-26 08:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by KP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly chances are slim being you are still 16 days out until your cycle...but you need to do something better then the pull out method if you are going to continue to have sex.
Especially at 14, I personally have a 14 yr old DD and if she came to me and told me the problems...I would be so mad but I would listen and first honest thing I would do is get her on BC...so maybe you should consider being HONEST with your mom, do you like it when she is not honest???
2007-02-26 08:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by ChelYox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are very good. Duh, you made your bed, now lie in it kid!!!
2007-02-26 12:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by EJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋