I love this girl more than anything but i feel she needs someone that can be there for her and have her dreams come true she wants to get married and i told her no because she wants things i cant be there to give her.all i want in this world is for her to always be happy and with me becoming more sick everyday she can never be happy i'm so tired of seeing and hearing her cry because of me. i never meant to hurt her but i feel she needs someone that will always be there for her and that can not be me. she will always be in my heart and everyday and night all i think of is her. I wish i knew away to ease her pain, but i believe its right for her that i told her she needs to find someone that can be with her for the rest of her life and be happy with and have her dreams come true. i wish she could understand how it hurts knowing i finally found true love and i have to let go so that she can find love again. i hope there really is life after death because i will always be with her.
2007-02-26 08:00:01 · 11 answers · asked by kelparks555 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is the first question that i read and touched my heart...im sorry abt whats happening to you and i hope you re not suffering....explain how you feel....tell her that you want to see her happy....but if it was me in her situation and my boyfriend was sick...i would stay with him forever because if you re in love nothing can make you feel sad no matter what the circumstances...talk to her....show her that you love her....write her a love letter and pour your heart and soul in it....she's not crying coz she's hurt but she's crying because she doesn't want to lose you...she wants to have happy moments with you...if she doesnt want to be there and if she s not happy with you than she would have left you but she's holding on to you because only you can make her happy...and one last thing...dont waste your time on the pc...spend your life with the person you love...if not you will regret it...i hope this helped you....i dont know you but i admire you for thinking like this...i thought man like you were near extinction...i thought only my bf is like this....but i was wrong....if it was me i would marry her and show her that you really care and really love her....you can maker her dream come true :) good luck and take care :)
2007-02-26 08:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is part of the life process that we will all face someday, our loved ones and then our own inevitable one. Trying to end the relationship during the midst of life is rather harsh. You shouldn't try to shut her off before you go. You can't protect her after your gone. Cherish every moment you have together. Get married! It doesn't matter how much time you have together or what you couldn't do, what matters is how much you loved eachother and enjoyed each other when you were together. She can find someone else when the time comes. It sure would be hard to go through that greiving process for you when you two broke up, and again when you died, wouldn't it? Why put her through that twice?
2007-02-26 16:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by cinandclover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that everything happens for a reason.Maybe she can't move on because your love for each other is much to strong to disconnect right now.Maybe it will be better for her to move on after she goes through her grieving process.If she tries to move on now she will grieve for a long time and then [if and when] you do pass away she will go through it all over again and this time even harder.Maybe you guys were meant to be together even for a short period of time. I am sure that she will learn things from your relationship that will help her for her future life.Have faith everything works out in the end.
2007-02-26 16:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you really do love her! That is so sweet to know that there are guys out there like you. But anyways, my advice would be: since you love her so much and it's obvious she loves you too, MARRY HER! So what if you're sick?! You'll both be happier in the long run that you at least were able to be togther for a little while. Yes, you want what's best for her, but it sounds to me like what's best for both of you is to spend the last bit of your life together. Then you can both be happy for as long as you have. Please consider my advice, I really think that this is what you should do.
Thanks.
2007-02-26 18:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by alkdfjlkasdjlkdf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl truly loves you, than she is not interested in finding someone else. If she knows that you are dying, and still wants to be with you, than enjoy the time you have together. Don't push her away.
2007-02-26 16:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making her decisions for her and this is wrong. You are only hurting her more. So please, allow her to do what she wants to do, and if that means she wants to be with you, then enjoy the time you have together. Put the most love and memories into this time that you possibly can. She will cherish it forever.
2007-02-26 16:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. I love this boy, but I am dying of leukemia. I feel bad for him and I think he should move on. I talked it over with him and we agreed to be best friends. Except he would date other people. I think that is might what you want to do.
2007-02-26 16:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by BLAH BLAH BLAH! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh...wow...you shoulnt stop talking to her...she obviously loves you and wants to be with you even though you are dying...you should savor the moments you do have left with her...and if you you pass she will know that you would want her to be happy and hopefully she can eventually move on...love hurts and so do lost loves...i hope everyting works out and i wish the best for you<3
2007-02-26 16:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah.Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont put yourself down so fast. i dont know your sickness and i knwo i cant feel what you are feeling right now btu let me tell you something...you said you finally found true love ....live it until you can !!!! be with her as long as you can..you deserve to be happy ....you cant make someone dont love you nomore just because .....i think you should be with her and be happy until you can love her anymore...
< i hope you understand what im trying to say>
<3 GOD BLESS YOU <3
2007-02-26 16:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww i am so sorry to hear that still love her have a great life while you can i mean if i was you i would marry her i mean have a life while you can she loves you and i think u should get married i am sorry bout your story it mad me want to cry but dont stop loving her okay !!! xoxoxo Good Luck
2007-02-26 16:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋