Work miracles or something? Advise threes0mes? What do you know about this?
2007-02-26 07:55:28 · 20 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on you. An open mind and an open check book. To tell you the truth....if you need to see a sex therapist, don't. If your relationship is having problems in the sex department, see a doctor first and get some blood work done. If physical attraction is not an issue, and sex is just boring or non-existant and you need something to spice it up a bit, make sure everyone is healthy. I have discovered that most sexual disfunction and lack of arousal is because of low sex hormones. After taking the right supplements and excersise, we didn't need sex therapy.
If that's not the problem and you are just bored, see a therapist. Most non chemical sexual problems are psychological anyway.
Have to admit though, one time I tried E and that worked wonders.
2007-02-26 08:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Marc B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know nothing but hopefully the two of you can get to mate in front of them then they hold up score cards and tell yall of improvements for the next 6 months. They usually help ones get over bedroom hurdles or show you how communication during sex is effective. I saw a soft porn about it that is the begining of the message while the end is prolly the truth. WRite another one once you find out b/c if you do bump uglies in front of them and they test you well i am so going b/c I do this thing with my hips and I want to see them score that. I say pretend instead of go though. Role play but yet I call it pretend. Do something new and freaky and in public then go buy something with the money yall save.
2007-02-26 08:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by BettieRulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that isn't any longer a question relating to satisfaction. that's a question of availability. while you're in a pleasurable, commited, sexual relationship, that's problematical to have self assurance your commited considerable different constantly needs to have intercourse once you do. So what are you ideas? A) carry out (for besides the incontrovertible fact that long that could take) B) discover yet another considerable different (no longer a sturdy selection while you're commited) C) Self excitement i think of "C" is a sturdy selection. additionally - he needless to say desires you and prefers you to masterbation, in any different case he might basically stay on my own and have interaction in hassle-free terms in that act. do no longer seem at it as opposition or selfishness, yet rather as he's being considerate, by way of fact he could have a greater physically powerful sexual force than you - it could be unreasonable for him to anticipate you to throw down all the time... It would not make him a worse lover or have much less stamina. everybody who mentions stamina is utilising that as an excuse. Masturbation takes longer - becuase intercourse is a lot greater stimulating, it could be greater durable (no pun meant) to hold out.. sturdy luck
2016-09-29 22:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure bout this, but when you mention the word "therapist", means they're supposed to be professionals. I think the question they would ask you would be what problems are you facing from your sex life. Then they help you solve from there. For example, "My wife dosen't provide me sex." Whoa, thats a tough question, why don't you ask them that and see what they say...
2007-02-26 07:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by ian@blueice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex education, psychoeducation, exploration of the role of emotions in physical intimacy, moderate and mediate the way couples communicate in terms of physical and emotional needs, provide tips for sexual pleasure, expand on the repertoires of each partner in terms of exploring new methods of sexual and emotional connection... but overall, talking about it just makes people horny.
There are a million ways to describe it
2007-02-26 08:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually they try to bring out what the couple really expects and wants in order to have a great sexual relationship. say one person really wants it to be rough and kinky and the other really wants it to be nice and romantic. a lot of couple have a hard time talking about what they really want as far as sex and a therapist can help them speek up and say what they want from their partner.
2007-02-26 08:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by mmh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same as marriage counselors, but more graphic... he or she will tell you that you should be nicer, wash the dishes and stuff, rub her feet, and expect less, and then tell her that maybe she should be less grouchy when she's turns you down, and that she should be very specific about when she wants you to do the dishes so there's no confusion...
2007-02-26 07:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, I am one so my answer my be a little biased. It always seems to help all of my clients and also brings them closer together. I would research it in your area and talk with your significant other and determine if he/she wants to discover more about as well.
2007-02-26 08:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you talking about things that are hard to talk about. Explore what the two of you want. Suggest new ideas. Look for problems to fix.
2007-02-26 07:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if your sex therapist had sex with you, that would improve your sex life.
2007-02-26 07:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by KC Slim 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋