The guy, Gary, is always really rude to me and will ignore me when I'm with my boyfriend Andy. gary had never met me before but he just blanked me when I tried to make conversation, he later told Andy that it was because he didn't want to appear flirty?! Anyway Gary starts texting my bloke weird messages after Andy cancelled meeting him to meet his other friend Des. He started saying stuff like "I wanted us to be like Bill and Ted...I wanted a gold trust with us". This has made me think that he might fancy my boyfriend, although he disagrees! I'm not really insecure or anything, but there's something about the guy that creeps me out,
he always says weird thinks about how he wants him and Andy to have something really special!
I don't know if I'm just being shallow but I don't know what to do! In my mind I don't want Andy to have anything to do with him! What do you think?
2007-02-26 07:52:59 · 13 answers · asked by schmeckschmack 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think this guy is gay, necessarily. I just think he's a weirdly intense creep.
However, it's not your fight - let your boyfriend sort it out. Tell your bloke that if he sees this guy you don't want to join them cos he always acts like an ar*e to you, but leave it up to him to decide whether he wants to continue the friendship.
Whatever you do, don't start dictating to your boyfriend who he can and can't be friends with - that makes you just as intense and possessive as Creepyknickers Gary!
2007-02-27 00:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by tabasc_oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don,t think that your being shallow. But just put this into
perspective. Gary is always rude to you. Ask him what
his problem is. I know you cannot decide whether Gary
is gay or not but that shouldn,t make a difference. If it
was a girl you would feel just as threatened. So as long
as your boyfriend only has eyes for you, there's nothing
to worry about. You haven,t said how Andy feels about
Gary. Does he annoy him? Let your boyfriend know how
you feel and tell Gary to find another playmate to be 'special'
with. Good Luck.
2007-02-26 16:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am andy. i'll bet that mrs schmeck schmack didnt expect me to find this on here. I think that maybe you are reading too much into it and that gary is abit odd but you should not be worried as i am straight and only have eyes for you and maybe keeley from page 3! i also expect to receive fellatio as a result of this debacle! finally i would also like to add that schmeck schmack is against me smoking in a confined space and she also has occasional bouts of urinal and bowel incontinence. Marc with a C,hello Cark
2007-02-26 17:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust Andy to make the right decision. If he loves you, he'll stay true to you left to his own devices. If you get involved, Andy will feel a lack of trust in the relationship and will resent it. Gary really isn't an important part of your life.
2007-02-26 15:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The single most best way is A straight up Question. Coming to conclusions is a road to trouble.
2007-02-26 15:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Panda WafflesZilla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your boyfriend to punch his lights out or at least tell him where to get off..that's what I would do..If he does'nt ..he's probably a shirtlifter too so you'd be better off without him.
Remember these bum burglars are in a minority (thank goodness) so the chances are your bloke is normal and is maybe too polite to tell this perv to 'sod off'.
Most homosexuals would n't make passes at a straight guy..(dangerous for their health) so this one needs to be put in his place ..and pronto.
2007-02-27 04:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you really do live for the drama don't you. Your guy is old enough to make decisions for himself about who he wants for friends. you have no right to tell him who he can and can't be friends with. Stop your petty jealousy, you are worse than a woman.
2007-02-26 15:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Trip S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if Andy is straight you have nothing to worry about.
gary needs to grow up.
2007-02-26 15:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the guy is stocking your bf and will next try and break you up in hopes of getting with you bf.
2007-02-26 15:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by chris a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aproach him and just say keep away he is my guy not yours. If that dont work just kick him between his legs, he will get the message. good luck babe.
2007-02-26 23:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋