suppose to be freaked at first when you tell your boyfriend that you might be prego but hten calm and want to help you through it
2007-02-26 07:23:29 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie Elise 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
everyone handles things differently. Its great he wants to help you through things, and completely natural to be freaked out at first....especially if the pregnancy is unplanned. Good luck!
2007-02-26 07:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if you are for sure before you tell him. Initially, he will be shocked, but eventually he will come around if he is a good guy. When I found out I was pregnant with my first son, my fiancee and I were in the process of planning our wedding. At first, he was in denial so I took about 4 test before he accepted it, then we decided to move the wedding up ad we have been married for 3 years now and have a second son.
Good luck!
2007-02-26 15:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend completely flipped out when I told him I was pregnant... he broke up with me, and then refused to believe it was his. When I told him I was pregnant with twins, he then proceeded to spread nasty rumors about me throughout the school. Now, he's calmed down a little bit. He still refuses to take responsibility and has made sure that I understood he wasn't going to help raise the kids. He says that he wants to at least see the kids when they're born, but after that, has no interest in them.
2007-02-26 15:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when i told my boyfriend, he said, and i quote "we'll deal with it as it develops"
needless to say we got an ept kit with two test, the first came out saying "pregnant" so he wanted me to take another one, the next day and i did, and this is what he said "i think the not on the display is broken"
well needless to say, im 38 weeks pregnant, and he is still by my side, as excited as can be.
as a matter of fact, i have a friend who is about 10 or 11 weeks pregnant, and her boyfriend is kind of hessitent towards her, and she's really upset about it, but she's keeeping her head up, hoping once he see's the baby and hears the heartbeat that he'll liven up a bit
~~~good luck
2007-02-26 15:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by ruspecialenuf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you feel when you first thought you might be prego? thats how he feels but hes also the guy so hes the brave protector and now you are carrying his baby. so yeah hes acting the way he should. go ahead and take a test so you don't keep him feeling this way if you are not. good luck i hope things turn out the way you want them too.
2007-02-26 15:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly most boys wil not be happy. I was 13 when I got my friend pregnant and I was upset at first. But i love my daughter. I am 17 now and I raise the little girl along with my fiancee who I live with.
My daughters mother left her last year.
2007-02-26 15:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~ Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.
2007-02-26 15:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by lonnie_m_d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea there gonna freak...I'm surprised he didn't ask the Question...Is it mine?....they calm down after a while and most will b there but then u have those that leave u
2007-02-26 15:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by Adele.S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a shock to him that's all.... men need time to adjust to new things.....
why don't u find out for sure if u are and then tell him regardless of what the result is... that way u don't freak him out for no reason at all....
2007-02-26 15:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by laydenirvine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Might be? Could be? Are you sure you're not just saying it to test his reaction?
2007-02-26 15:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋