2007-02-26 06:55:43 · 19 answers · asked by ben h 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i kissed a male friend of mine and felt something...like butterflys
2007-02-26 07:40:11 · update #1
Try it! But make sure you have something to hand to wipe the pooh off your willy.
2007-02-26 07:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by freddy the newf 4 · 2⤊ 5⤋
If the boy you kissed turned you on, or when he looks at you and smiles, erm, hes pushing your buttons.
If you want to be close to him or just be with him, if you think about doing more than kissing then you might be gay.
If your friend is not rejecting you, then ask him to go places with you, kiss him, touch him. If he accepts what you do with him, then if its right for you both you can take your pants off and experiment with sex.
If your thing is hard thinking about him or other boys, then you are probably gay. The only way too realy find out is to do it with another boy but make sure its the right boy & dont get hurt. Take care :))xxx
2007-02-28 14:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by wowdavid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I wonder how old you are and if you are going thru some normal experimentation or having some erotic dreams that scare you. If you are in the locker room and checking out the other guys equipment, that does not make you gay. If you get an erection or start dreaming about that guy and masturbate and want to see more, you may be headed in that direction. If you experiment with another guy and like it, you may be confirming what you suspect. If you are real young, take your time to decide.
2007-02-26 15:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Brent W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then you must be trying to make a decision. Making a decision obviously negates the ridiculous argument that people are born gay. They are not, they choose to be that way. So accept the fact that you were born to be drawn to the opposite sex. THAT is the way you were made. Making a choose because it is now accepted to be gay does not make you gay. You choose.
2007-02-26 15:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by docholiday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You notice guys more than gals. You're attracted to guys more than gals. When you masturbate you think about guys more than gals. You'd rather give oral sex to a guy than get it from a gal. When you go to bed at night, you wish you could cuddle next to a guy. It's not too complicated.
2007-02-26 15:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres no harm in kissing regardless of your sexual orientation. in italy male footballers can be seen kissin and frolicking about like bafoons,esp when a goal has been scored.
2007-02-27 16:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can ever be 100% sure of your sexuality, whether you are straight, gay or bisexual. I'm 18, I think I'm straight but I can't say I'm 100% sure about, and honestly I doubt (maybe that's just because of my ''young'' age) anybody can...and if you're gay, well nothing wrong with it. Just be who you are and people will respect you, and if they don't, remember it's their loss, not yours .
2007-02-26 15:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Sylvia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to try to be with a guy sexually. If you're turned on, you're gay. If you are not into it at all, and not due to nervousness, you may be straigt
2007-02-26 15:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are attracted to the same sex & not the opposite sex-it's not rocket science!
2007-02-26 15:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you mentally, emotionally, PHYSICALLY attracted only to people of your same sex??? if you answered yes, then yes you are!
2007-02-26 15:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a sweet heart, it will come to you if you are and if your not then you must have lots of simpathy and compassion for those who are, i think you're awsome for asking...
2007-02-26 15:32:05 · answer #11 · answered by GODHATER666 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋