i'm pregnant but we used a condom what do i do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-26 06:24:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say to have the child and give it up for adoption. there are plenty of couples who would love to have your child.
2007-02-26 06:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be blunt here, but it is out of genuine concern for both you and your baby. It's not your baby's fault that you are young, or that the condom broke. Your baby is completely innocent and does not deserve to die. She is depending on you for protection. Abortion is very dangerous for you as well. Please don't let anyone hurt her or you. Take a look at this information:
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http://www.nrlc.org/Factsheets/FS15_pilldanger.pdf
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Support for Pregnant Teens:
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Advice on Telling Parents About a Pregnancy:
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You can do the right thing.
2007-02-26 14:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it up for adoption. Their are so many couples who would love a baby!!!
My husband and I are thinking of adoption ourselves. I would love a baby and so many woman can never have one.
You could touch someones life. What good would be just ending your babie's life? Abortion is not easy and I know [personally] a few woman at work who did and have NEVER forgotten.
Look in the phone book and call a center who helps young woman with adoption and counseling. Tell your mom.
Also take a look at a sonogram before you make any final decisions.
Take care and good luck.
2007-02-26 07:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have an abortion. Give it up for adoption, if you don't want it, but at least give it a chance at life, even if it's not with you. I'd take it, me and my girlfriend are eager to have another kid. Later in your life you might regret either decision, but at least if you go the adoption route you know you gave your baby a chance to live. I think abortion is a much harder decision to live. If you choose to keep, then good for you. Even when times are hard you never regret your children, they are truly a blessing. My girlfriend had her children at a young age, and she's been through alot, but she would never change having had them. They're 2 wonderful, beautiful kids, and I know I'm glad she didn't follow others' advice on giving them up.
2007-02-26 06:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by devotedlyyours270 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention your age but your reference to telling your mother suggests you are young. In any event, this is not a decision to be made lightly so I suggest you talk to several responsible adults. Do you have a pastor or someone who can counsel you? Adoption agencies can help make the decision but tend to advise you to have the baby and let someone adopt it. Lots of people have been adopted; lots of them spend quite a bit of time, energy and money looking for their birth parents. Lots of birth parents do the same. There are many regrets and many thank yous involved. Do not make this decision lightly.
2007-02-26 06:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Marilyn S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would like to tell you something.
My friend was pregent but she decide not to have it.
She had an abortion, and kill the poor baby that wanted to come to live, and be someone. And once i told her do you feel guilty?
She answer yes, and told me right know my daughter or son would be 4 years old, and i didnt see his first steps and when they learn to say their first word mommy and daddy. When they kiss you bye, bye. And their first day at school.
Would you like to miss all that with you baby?? Think about it?
2007-02-26 06:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by yanelyr18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me 2 years ago... now i'm married and have a beautiful 18 month old... here's the big question... don't think about your mom or boyfriend for a minute... do YOU want this baby...? do YOU think YOU'RE ready...? emotionally and financially...? once you've answered those questions the real answer should come to you...
2007-02-26 06:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by damiens_mommy_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A abortion is a option for you.. just don't wait to long to decide. If you have a dad around talk to him, sometimes they have good advise.
2007-02-26 06:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by It's me! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your mom.(PLEASE). I know that you are scared but I promise you, it will not be as bad as you think. She my be upset but she will get over the shock. Let her help you with this . If you cannot talk to your mom tell someone else that you trust. Maybe they can help you break the news to mom.
2007-02-26 06:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by JULIE L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an adoptee who was adopted by evil parents, I am all FOR abortion. If you don't want it, and can't take care of it, DON'T HAVE IT.
2007-02-26 07:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by FTW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋