spicing up a relationship?

Question

what can you do to spice up our relationship? we get bored cause we cant think of nothing to do, i mean stuff that dont have to cost money! it can be sexual or non plz help

Answer 1

I have the perfect idea.
When I was dating my now husband. He bought a Topco sex swing for Valentines day last year. That is my suggestion, If you did, it would be day he would never forget. I experienced my first big - O, it was amazing, so I just had to marry him.

From this woman's point of view the swing we got made my butt sore. It was like sitting on a swing at the playground. It made my legs go a little numb. I guess from a man's point of view. well lets say the point of view is what counts to him :)

I have been asking about the RHW swing I seen on ebay. The RockHer World Swing looks like it is built more from the woman's point of view. Looks like this is the one we are going to get next. It just looks so comfy. I found it by doing a search for "sex swing" on ebay.

Dose any one have the RHW Swing

Answer 2

Sexual stuff is prety easy, if you get any game and make it strip or play a kind of sexy truth or dare or something. Maybe go to the park, go and do things that dont cost much money, go and buy some food, dress nice, get some candles and cook a really nice meal. Have a picnic somewhere, just enjoy spending time with each other again, you each are the reason you want to be in this relationship, so remember just how lucky you are to have met, and just have fun together.

Answer 3

Do things that you have never done before.

SEXUAL: Jump in a car and go someplace secluded and have a quicky. Go out drinking and forget your panties. Tell him on the way to the bar. Go out to a bar and comeback from the restroom and stuff your panties in his pocket – telling him a snack is waiting for him when he's hungry. Go shopping at an adult store and "you" pick out something.

NON SEXUAL: Pamper the other for a day, wait hand and foot on them and do everything asked of you (could turn naughty). Do charity work at a homeless shelter. Once you see how bad others have it every day, you will appreciate what you have every day.

Spicing up a relationship requires an open mind, not an open wallet.

Answer 4

It depends on how long you have been together and what you have or have not done. My husband out have been together for 8 years so we have that comfort zone where we can try ANYTHING with each other. Personally I have done strange things just to spice things up. One day we were on the way home after goin out to eat and I started teasin him in the car so when we got home we were hot and steamy, never made it to the house. As soon as we pulled the car into the garage....... I have call his phone said my name is ? and tell him to meet me at home at a certain time -role play. There is always something you can do. Bubble Bath. Eat fruit off each other-kind of like body shots. Talk to each other find out what turns them on and off and go wild with it.....

Answer 5

One of the sweetest things my boyfriend has done for me was the most simple. We took a drive out by the water and watched the moon and the boats. It gave us time alone to talk without any distractions. It made us realize what we saw in each other to begin with. Another thing was turning on the radio in the garage and dancing in the backyard under the stars. Very easy even with a baby in the house.

Answer 6

Take a walk, hand-in hand, along the railroad tracks. Call each other up, and talk while shopping at Wal-Mart. Fix a nice dinner, with all the sides and desserts you both like. LISTEN, when they talk to you. Give a massage! Plan an event together. Watch your favorite, old movie, together.

Answer 7

I like have more inexpensive things to do than most "do a country in europe for 8.00 dollars a day" books since you are on line go to yahoo's whats going on and plug in your zipcode it will list places you might not know of I just found a coffee house with jazz and poetry night..... also we have disneyland and universal citywalk to just go to and bump into people at. go to high school games and cheer leading compititions. Go fishing off a pier. take up body surfing and frisbee golf is free and we have nine couses within 45 miles..... Enjoy the out doors go on a road trip with binoluars and look for wildlife hiding in the tree line ( I saw my first cougar in the wild last year) enjoy free concerts in city parks. go play shuffle board or lawn bowling with the old retired guys and girls at their park they hang at.. Go by your church adn get a list of shut ins and take a senior citizen shopping for their groceries, go volunteer at the Y M C A for afterschool kids.

Answer 8

well non sexual first try learning to cook together or just go for a walk or sexual explore your deep down dark secret fantasys let each other have control for 2 hours you do all he wants anything and then he does the same for you make a porno video together enjoy

Answer 9

Ok so laugh but Porn is a good way. Try anything wild and fun. A good cheap thing to do is Disk golf, walking, riding bikes, long drives. rent a movie many things just have to find out what you both like.

Answer 10

my wife and i have the game going on that who can out romance each other. so far my wife win this last time. with a big box of goodies for my office so that i will not be hunger at work. she even put all sorts of thing that i like but with in it she put love notes and hits of thing she wont's done to her. so if you like thing like this. it is cheep and handmade and lots of fun. Good luck.