well because i had this boyfriend for about 7 months or so and sometimes we used condems and sometimes we didnt and sometimes i didnt ever really let him nut but one day towards the end of our relationship we got in an argument cause i was breaking up with him and he was like telling me how he nutted in me all the time and how i must not be able to have kids and **** like that. but he ended up getting some girl pregnant but i dont know cause it still lingers in my head if i'm infertile or something. please help.
2007-02-26 06:10:37 · 5 answers · asked by elleshisa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
How cruel he was to you! I'm so glad you are rid of him. When we have sex before marriage, it really leaves the doors open to our hearts and we are so much more vulnerable to being hurt and rejected! I'm so sorry he said those things to you. It sounds like he said them in anger, and I would not trust him. However, you can find out whether or not you are fertile without ever having sex. You can chart your symptoms using the Natural Family Planning method or NFP.
In a nut shell, you chart your basal body temperature (temperature after at least 3 hours of sleep) and your cervical mucus symptoms (they change from thick to creamy to stretchy and clear and then back to thick throughout your cycle, indicating fertility). If there is a problem with either, your NFP instructor will be able to help you indentify any problems and sometimes, there is a simple solution to becoming pregnant (like having to take progesterone). To find a NFP instructor in your area, you can use either one of the two links below.
I'm so sorry for your broken heart. Please know I've been there too. It's so hard. And those last words came seem as if they are haunting you. Please know you will be in my prayers! God bless!
2007-02-26 06:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mary's Daughter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never think of the negative. It could be that you were not tracking your ovulation. So don't be worried you can always go to the doctor and get it checked out. Or it could of been a sign that you didn't need to be with that guy anyway. But never think of yourself of the one who has the problem. GOD works in mysterious ways, your time will come. Good Luck!
2007-02-26 14:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by 2hot4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have your Dr send you for a blood test on teh 21st day of your cycle to see if you ovulate or not. That should make you feel better...it tests the progesterone that you produce around ovulation.
2007-02-26 14:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to see a doctor to find out for sure. Be glad that you are not pregnant because he doesn't sound like good father material.
2007-02-26 14:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl im almost 100% sure he lie to make you feel bad... about the other girl pregned you dont even know if its his maybe he is the one infertile.. good luck..
2007-02-26 15:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by BRENDA A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋