I absolutley love my boyfriend its just he cannot get me wet like everyone else can.He says its because I am not attracted to him.That attraction has to do with mental connection.Do you think it has anything to do with his looks because he is not physically attractive at all.I mean I do feel a sexy vibe from his personality but he just its physically attractive.He is a bit chubby dark skinned mexican with wrinkles,chub and acne scars on his face.He also has a broken nose.
2007-02-26 05:27:56 · 10 answers · asked by eurasia 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Lady, I read your question and have come with the following:
Don't go blaming yourself for not be physically attracted to your beau. You explained (in the final statement of your question, ... :"... bit chubby dark skinned Mexican with wrinkles,chub and acne scars on his face.He also has a broken nose". In all honesty, WHO could be physically attracted to that. However, the fact that you say you are in love with his personality - beauty then becomes that which is only held in the eye of the beholder.
Unless you are willing to just 'close your eyes' every time you two get to the bedroom - sweetheart you may just want to set this bird free. Personalities are great, but sex is a major component of any relationship - and if you feel repulsed by this guy - trade him in for a newer model. What else can you do?
Either take heed, or keep lying to yourself - if you choose the latter - you may regret it later thinking of all the time you've wasted, instead of letting it go and moving along at this time (when you are questioning).
Good luck sweety,
bga
2007-02-26 05:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by bga 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should think of which you're mum and dad are not a real believers. i might additionally say for any faith, if human beings are strict and inflexible. All religions are proclaiming the comparable: love and devotion etc. in the experience that your mum and dad are the difficulty, then there's no longer something you should do approximately them. in case you fairly love one yet another, you will keep adequate money so which you may start up the hot existence collectively. by how, there are a number of shuttle agencies that supply excursions to Turkey (howdy, we are interior the middle of the season): why do no longer you choose for a holiday (on your mum and dad) and promptly into your boyfriends hands (for you!!!!)? Additionaly: you may consistently make an argument on your mum and dad that the Balkan grow to be decrease than Turkish government over 500 years ;o)
2016-11-26 00:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by trickey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The statement you made about how he can't get you "wet like everyone else can" doesn't reflect that highly on your past choices. Just an FYI. Also, if you love your boyfriend then you'd find things to be attracted to. Sex is about the physical, mental and emotional, but it is obvious to me that if you were sincerely in love with him, you would be trying to improve the situation instead of discussing his "imperfections." In the meantime, try switching it up and teaching him different things that help get you hot, from the way he moves his hands to the way he talks to you. Good luck.
2007-02-26 05:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by greenbuddha03 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've gotten to take him for granted.
Sexual excitement often goes along with other excitement - a sense of strangeness, perhaps a little danger -- sounds like your boyfriend is a really nice guy with a lot of patience and feels like more of a trusted friend than the 'sexy, tall, handsome stranger'.
Close your eyes while you're with him and appreciate his love and loyalty.
2007-02-26 05:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by flywho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mental and physical attraction are totally different. It is competely possible to love someone and not be turned on by them. That is probably a good indication that you should just be friends. If you aren't physically attracted to someone sex isn't going to be enjoyable.
2007-03-04 08:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by LoveBats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definantly. I mean there is nothing that can turn a woman on more than a hot guy. I feel for you. You obviously love him, but if I were you I would either accept this or move on so he, and you, can get people who turn both of you'll on. Wow, I really feel bad for the both of you.
2007-03-03 00:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by ~Beauty is Beautiful~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I really don't understand. Why is he your boyfriend? It doesn't sound as if you are attracted to him at all. You know there is a difference between love and being in love, as well as platonic love and sexual attraction. You might need to consider this.
2007-03-03 10:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you love him but only as a friend.
2007-02-26 05:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Brandi H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your thinking about it too much...just enjoy it
2007-02-26 05:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a lesbain
2007-03-05 05:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by bredsox151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋