Why do someone women (myself included) fantasize about being raped?

Question

its my ultimate fantasy

Answer 1

For the most part this is a fantasy of women who are used to being in control or women who are usually a dominant personality.

The reason for this is because you(women of that type) are so used to having a grip on everything that you lack spontenaity or excitement.... and having a rough and wild sexual experience is the perfect "counter" to what you are used to.

We all want a variety and we all want excitement (especially sexually) but the truth is that rape isn't about sex....it's about power. This is another reason that some women desire the experience....they want to be dominated.

Whatever your reasons are, don't kid yourself. Having a rape fantasy is very different than when the real thing happens. The rapists in reality are very rarely handsome, they don't slow down when you need them to, they are creul and violent and they don't really care if you get off or not. So don't place yourself in a hazardous situation...please. (not that you would, but some people aren't too smart sometimes...and since I don't know you, I have to assume the latter)

However, if you have a partner who is willing to indulge you and your fantasy, by all means...stage something with some ground rules and have a little fun....safe fun.

Good Luck

Answer 2

Every woman I have ever known that want to play out fantasy rape is longing to be totally dominated sexually. In this country societal conditioning as taught women good girls are not loose woman. Being sexually free to be totally dominated sexually lessens the value of a woman in both her and a man’s eyes. The fantasy of rape takes away a woman’s responsibility for being totally dominated sexually. If she is not raped, even in a fantasy, it is not her fault so it does not mean she is the proverbial loose woman.

I don't care what any woman says a woman's greatest sexual pleasure is through surrender to her own sexual desire and to her partners. We call the being dominated but this mislabeling what is behind the true intent of this desire. It is about sexual surrender to yourself and to your partner. Surrender is not a weakness but a courageous freedom to fully express your true sexuality.

Women are not stupid. Women understand a man will not marry a lady if he views as being to sexually free. Women know a man will think whom else has she done this with? Many men can't handle these thoughts and would not see a lady as marriage material. This is way husbands can be the last one to know about a woman true sexual history.

A woman is wise to hide this from an emotionally immature man that is stupid enough to not value her based on his own issues. Nor should enter into a marriage without total disclosure. A woman should not be judged for her sexual preferences or history as long as she is physically healthy and disease free. We are not talking about a woman that was a professional if you know what I mean; beyond that a man should not care about a woman’s sexual past if he truly loves a lady.

God how I appreciate a woman that can courageous share her true sexual desire with full disclosure. This is what sex is all about outside of procreation.

Answer 3

OK, I definitely don't fantasize about getting raped. What is wrong with you. That has to be the dirtiest, scariest thing that could happen to someone and that is your fantasy! You are shot. When you say some women, do you know any or have any proof because you are the first one that I've ever heard say something like that. To each their own but that is sick....