I have a friend who lives hours away from me, as does most of her friends, so basically she doesnt have any close female friends near her that she can see regularly.
Due to this she tends to spend all of her time with her bf, and she likes that but he has expressed interested in spending a little more time apart and said she should get more female friends to hang out with.
She asked my opinion on how to meet girls, as i dont have much luck in that department either i am seeking other advice.
She doesnt really like bars and doesnt have any interests at the moment, and hell from my experience girls tend to not like other girls anyway.
2007-02-26 05:00:42 · 3 answers · asked by ~Browneyes~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its not just my attitude, that comes from experience. When i started dating my bf i wanted to meet his female friends to get to know them, and he mentioned it to them and they flat out said they had no desire to even meet me. Ive seen this attitude in alot of girls, including some girls i know at work. Im not sure why, i think women tend to be more protective of their group than anything. But if you have advice on how to actually meet women who arent like that im open to listen. Most ppl i know here at work say go to the bars, but seriously do other females go to the bar to pick up women for friendship? And im not even going to ask what the pick up line would be LOL.
2007-02-26 05:09:30 · update #1
Shes a 30 year old woman who doesnt go to school anymore, so she cant meet girls there.
meeting ppl in high school was easier..
2007-02-26 05:10:50 · update #2
For one, she could post an ad on craigslist, stating the kind of things she would like to do:
work out buddy, ride bikes together, learn to knit (start a knitting group), maybe start a book club, a shopping buddy, etc.
There might already be a similar posting on craigslist, so she could look through the postings in the 'platonic' section or in the community events section.
Another piece of advice is to look at your local craft stores, book stores, sporting equipment stores,etc. for groups that already meet which she could join.
Taking a class at the local community college, either a regular class or an adult education class (art, cooking, ballet, any of her interests) would definitely introduce you guys to a new group of people.
Have a yard sale, and invite your closest neighbors to participate in a Neighborhood Yard Sale. This will help to introduce yourselves to people that live around you and you might meet someone who could be a friend. For that matter, you could do any community thing - like start a neighborhood watch program, a neighborhood recycling program, etc.
2007-02-26 05:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by keengrrl76 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of you will EVER meet other girls with that attitude that girls tend to not like other girls anyway. It sound s to me like the problem lies with YOU.
2007-02-26 13:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by lanibear55 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come one it is not so hard to have friend she should be normal and maybe seeing some girls in schools and try to be herself and she will be so relax.
2007-02-26 13:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋