Alright, so I'm going to have a threesome on spring break...My girlfriend is bringing her friend from florida...and shes like she wants to have sex with us...I'm like well alright!...so from anyone experienced out there need some tips on how to handle it straight...thanx
2007-02-26 05:00:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can be a great expereince. My wife and I have done 3-somes and it is very errotic. We set the rules with each other and then we don't break them. We openly talk about what we liked and disliked and if one of us is uncomfortable it stops no questions asked. The only difference is that we don't pick people we know on a personal level and we don't exchange phone #s or anything. This prevents any stalking type things from happening. We enjoy this lifestyle and has really spiced it up a LOT. But both have to be 100% comfortable and set rules.
2007-02-26 09:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by mac_attack_51 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well are a few scenario's that the 2 girls are into each other.That your girl friend is ready for you being with someone else, That the other girl will be also with you not just her, That you are OK with her being with another girl,
&&&&& the big 1 if she likes the experence she may thing about more girls less you. So that just my thought.
Can be a great experance or your worst nightmare
Get ready as there are 2 an only you. Have fun enjoy youself.
2007-02-26 05:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let your girlfriend guide you...find out what she wants & is expecting. Do not do anything with the friend unless your girlfriend wants you too. (They may just want you to watch??) Let your girlfriend be open with you about what she wants. Threesomes can be a good thing- you just have to have the trust between you. And for God's sake... do not start talking to the friend behind your girlfrinds back when it's over!!!
2007-02-26 05:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sam F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them take the lead, try to be the one slowing things down if you can. It is an exciting experience, and it may be a once in a lifetime experience. Make it last! And here's the funny thing... the more you treat it like a once in a lifetime experience and the longer you make it last, the more likely it is you'll experience it again. If you make it last the whole week, then the girls will have more time to enjoy themselves, and they'll be more likely to want to try it again.
2007-02-27 01:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had a threesome with me and my boyfriend and It didnt really work out the girl who was the third party kept calling my boyfriend and emailing him and she was married... Be careful is all I can say the third girl may end up calling and bugging you all the time... Your girlfriend may end up getting jealous but be careful whatever you do...
2007-02-26 05:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by starrynightbreeze2005 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Never ever have a threesome with some one that you are emotional attached too. Nothing good ever comes out of it.
Threesomes are for one stands
2007-02-26 05:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
make sure everyone is included. Don't focus on just your gf or the other girl. Don't let enyone feel left out, especially your gf, or she might get jealous.
Also, afterwards don't brag about how good the other girl was. You can say the whole experience was fun, incredible, whatever, but don't focus your delight on just the new girl.
Have fun, all of my 3-somes have been incredible....
2007-02-26 05:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it slow and do not rush anything. and if any of them say they can not handle it anymore step back. OO drink lots of water and eat lots of bananas and abstain from sex for a 2 day before your have your threesome. and most of all have fun.
2007-02-26 05:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you all meet at your place or her place where ever you all decide. have a drink or two just to help relax everyone and head to the bed room. And just do what come natural. You'll know and with the two girls they should also be doing stuff and well you'll see what I am talking about when the time comes. Have a GREAT time.
2007-02-26 05:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋