The Break Up? What should I do now?
Here's the deal. My girlfriend of a yr just broke up with me yesterday, after we had an argument (we had been experiencing different problems each not in our relationship). I was devastated, and she said could we meet the next day, so that she could 'explain', I said that there wasn't much point, as it wouldn't help either of us, she didn't want to be with me anymore. I said that I loved her, and that if she did want to take me back, I would be waiting for her at the place she said she wanted to meet me to explain. If she didn't turn up, I would assume that she didn't want to get back together and work through these problems together.
She didn't turn up. I go to get a bus home, she's standing there with two of her friends who are comforting her. We both get on the bus, she sits in the seat furthest away...i midway through the journey go up and say can't we just sort all this out....she says that she wanted to explain, but i said 'whats the point'?, then she started crying & told me2go
2007-02-26 04:54:28 · 4 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know about this all too well and most of the times people want to explain things to you to get some closure to the relationship. Although i know that her doing that is very hurtful to you maybe you should hear her out because suppose something has happen that she really needs to tell you and in all reality if you listen maybe you can better understand why she made the decision she did. Just try to be strong enough to listen to what she has to say. Good Luck!
2007-02-26 05:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is the end, but you are not willing to accept it. It also sounds like she is going thru something and she needs to be on her own right now. Give her some time and space and maybe things will work out, maybe they wont.
2007-02-26 13:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should listen to her and let her free for some time you will again organised
2007-02-26 13:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by pinku_gulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being very immature.
2007-02-26 12:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋