5 people at work decided they didn't like me. They swore at me. Messed with my vehilce. Withheld information I needed to do my job. My husband says my attitude brought it on. What could I possibly do to deserve my mental health and personal safety being put at risk?
2007-02-26 04:43:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
No one deserves that type of treatment, and your husband is as much as a bully for saying that to you. No one deserves to be treated that way. Go to Human Resources and tell them the situation. Also go to the police, you have to do something about the car.
2007-02-26 04:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um you may have done nothing or you did everything right and they are jealous. I had that sort of thing once. This one lady was supposed to start a management training type thing and she was not as mature as I was. I was older and paid more attention to detail than she did. She was there longer than me though. Well when it came time for her to start training, boss lady decided that she would rather put me in that spot. It caused a big mess. I was treated like dirt from all the folks that liked that other lady. You have to do what you have to do.
You can either tell your boss or ignore them they will go away. If you don't act out on what they are doing to you then they aren't getting anything from it and will stop. They are like 7 yr olds that are still having fits if they can't get their way. When mom or dad stops reacting to them they don't throw fits anymore.
Your husband is a goof he should be supporting you not tearing you down with those other people you work with.
Good Luck.. Hold your head high and don't let them bother you. But let them know you think they are being really childish. That will make them feel 5 inches tall. LOL
2007-02-26 12:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find another job ASAP. But if your husband says your attitude caused it..I'm betting you're not the friendliest person around. However, there is no excuse for behavior like that. If they messed with your car & damaged it, you could (& should) press charges. If you stay employed here, you'll end up a nervous wreck. Good luck!!
2007-02-26 12:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by lovemy2babies 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fire your husband,
Talk to your boss
File a police report (on the car)
Talk with a lawyer
Look for another job
Fire the husband (yea I know i put it down twice and I mean it)
2007-02-26 12:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋