i really like my best friend. He is really sweet, easy to talk to and has a great personality. We had a bit of a drunken ''moment'' the other night but he hasnt said anything about it since. He has a girlfriend but he is still really forward towards me. Do you think it is just because he is my best mate or he has feelings for me too?
2007-02-26 04:32:13 · 13 answers · asked by jones_is_pirate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah thats true, but also he hardly see's her gf, none of his family have met her and he barely even talks to me about her. n he is my best friend... do you know what i mean?
2007-02-26 04:38:01 · update #1
Carefully does it or you may lose a good freind - drunken moments between freinds can be misleading --- if you are best friends then he will tell you as soon as he is able now that the 'moment' has happened. Fingers crossed you get your wish.
2007-02-26 04:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how girls emotions work but I had a problem like that with a good friend once. I spent almost all summer with her as she lived really close and neither of us were going away that summer. After a while I began to feel that I might "fancy" her. But being honnest I didn't really, I was just so close to her that I thorght there may be something but we were just good friends. It is possible that you can love him and he is still your best mate. Its just a different kind of love but it is still no less love.
2007-02-26 12:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has girlfriend he is off limits.He is your best friend he has a girlfriend leave it at that.He may be your best friend but he may also feel he wants the cake and the bakery with it you know if he really had good intentions he would break up with his gf and be with u right?Imagine how would it be if u had a bf who had a best friend and this happened.It wouldnt be good.So let him make his choice gf or best friend.
2007-02-26 12:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by aguardianangel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey I'm having the same problem but i realized that being so close to you he prolly is getting feelings for you most guys do when there so close you should investigate more! do a little more to find out but he still has a girlfriend so nothing like kissing or anything like that kinda back away and see if it effects him!
2007-02-26 12:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by ♥kristie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being drunk can do that to you - Think about it this way - He cheated on his girl with you - If you two started going out - Would you be able to trust that he wouldn't cheat on you?? That's what I always think about if I ever hooked up with someone that has a girlfriend - I don't do it anymore...maybe you should try finding someone that is available and that will kiss you when your sober!!!
2007-02-26 12:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From personal experience. You cannot have best friends between males and females. It always ends in a relationship... Tell him how you feel. If you don't you will regret it. He might like you but not sure if you like him.
2007-02-26 12:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by kyriacos d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep in mind best friends last forever, relationships don't. If he hasn't mentioned anyhting to you about the "moment" then he may feel guitly. You need to talk to him about it and see how he feels.
2007-02-26 12:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he may have a soft spot for you but i dont think its anything more than that, he has a girlfriend so unless you have really really strong feelings for him and are sure he has them back for you dont do anything just stay best mates.
2007-02-26 12:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men ALWAYS have some sexual feeling towards women!!!! Considering you are both about the same age and not completely disgusting!!
2007-02-26 12:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dirty Sanchez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he may have a soft spot for you but maybe only coz he cares for you as a best friend.Plus i would not pursue anything while he has a gf as its not very nice is it??
2007-02-26 13:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Izzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋