i see that no one took the time out to see what i was saying i am going throgh a divorce and so is he the spouses left us we had enough time to thinkl on what we want to do and that was to start a life with each other no i dont love my husband he left me and moved to new orleans and now he knows i move on and wants me back.... the same for his wife .im not a tramp i thought i was doing the right thing by divorcing him so me and my ne man can cont to be happy i thought people on here would be honest and not just look at one side my husband cheated on me so many times i cant even cout the times after we were married all i want to know is if i love my new boyfriend should i cont....... this relationship and be happy
2007-02-26 04:31:32 · 15 answers · asked by wendy w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love your new boyfriend, then of course you should continue your relationship with him... just take things slow and make sure that you are 100% about decisions that you make concerning your relationship with him...
2007-02-26 04:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 2 are happy and in love then by all means go for it!!! You deserve to be happy. I wouldn't consider what you are doing as cheating, your husband left you and moved away, he cheated on you, and you don't love him any more. I say why be miserable the rest of your life get out there and live be happy!
2007-02-26 12:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can continue your relationship with your boyfriend as long as the both of you no longer wanted to be with your spouses. You both really should get divorced. No reason to stay married to someone if you do not want to be with them. Just do not be going back and forth between your spouses and each other. Go luck to you
2007-02-26 12:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by unknown2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wendy some people on yahoo cant read or dont take the time to absorb what you asked so ignore that crap by all means get divorced from the cheaters and wait to marry anyone else just be together at least 5 years if things are still great marry dont rush things
2007-02-26 12:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by Leanne B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to be unhappy. If you both are divorced and moved on, good luck. Hope this works out better for you.
2007-02-26 12:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is tell your side of story. Seems as if you also cheated on him... Why would he leave you? What did you do? How miserable were you then? How strict were you? How often you used expletives to him? Oh, now he wants you back. Seems as if he's jealous... No, you are already moved on. Stick with your current boyfriend. If you feel loved by him, then marry him eventually. One thing you need to do though is not to tell one side of stories, implicated both sides instead... What turns me off is how you plotted out his bad behavior and excluded yours.
Women we called them.
2007-02-26 12:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since your English is so poor I had some trouble following your question. If you and your boyfriend are married, he is your husband, not your boyfriend but I really can't figure out what you are saying.
2007-02-26 12:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Hibbler 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you should continue. You are not doing anything wrong you're husband sounds like a jerk. Good Luck to you and you're boyfriend.
2007-02-26 12:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you should. Life is about being happy!
2007-02-26 12:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being selfish,why are you only worried about yourself and not this new man in your life dicovering that you have contacts with your past.
what do you want with your life the old man or the new man?
make a choice and stick with it!!!!
2007-02-26 12:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by mini-haven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋