He's wants to make 2 packages that's like 20 pieces of bacon and eat it in one sitting. He wants me to eat half, but there's no way I'm eating 10 peices of bacon. I said, "you are too fat. Don't eat all that bacon! That's a heart attack on a plate" and he says, "So eat half!" and I say "I'm not eating myself to death!" now he says, "I'll melt cheese on it!" My chest hurts just thinking about it. How do I convince him not to eat all that nasty bacon at once before it's too late?! He's already almost 200 lbs!! Help!
2007-02-26 04:26:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ahaha! He's not going to eat all the bacon :) I made him go weigh himself and told him he was too fat to eat bacon. Hahaha, why don't men do this with their wives when they are gaining weight and getting fat?
I keep him 'cause I love him just not his bacon! <3
2007-02-26 04:32:24 · update #1
I am his wife! In all practicalities and I don't cook he does!!! Calling him fat did work! Gosh, people lighten up.
2007-02-26 04:34:19 · update #2
I'm never having babies! He does the shopping!!!
2007-02-26 04:35:37 · update #3
What a stupid argument.
2007-02-26 04:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by melouofs 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you two shoudl split. Your way to vain to be with him. Let him eat what he wants. If he only does that once in a while whats the harm? Next time buy 2% cheese and turkey bacon. But i really think it was rude to call him fat. Thats acctaully verbal abuse. You could be nice and say i think we should eat heaither.Its girls like you that nag that give all of us bad names. Back off the dude. Its his body like I said all you can do is buy heaither stuff. And if you cant love him a little chubby. Then your not gonna be able to love him down the road when hes a little chubby and his hairs falling out or he's getting wrinkled. Keep in mind in a few years when the babys start poppin out your not gonna look so thin yourself anymore.
so he does the shopping with your guys money but you have no say over what is bought?????????? As for the no babies in a few years ya still wrinkle and get gray hair.
2007-02-26 12:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you two are pretty immature. Why are you on the computer if you are having a disagreement, why not be with him, talking in a calm manner and why are you fighting over something so dumb. So what if he wants to eat bacon. He probably won't eat it all, and it is not like you have to eat half of it. I just want to ask you one thing though, how would you like it if he were to tell you that "you are so fat", probably make you feel crappy and pretty angry. I suggest learning to use words that are condusive to a positive relationship and learning to pick your fights. There are people killing each other and you care about bacon? Get real
2007-02-26 12:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him too much grief over what he's eating. Men don't lok at food the same way we do. They get a craving, and they want all of whatever it is that they want.
200 lbs. isn't too much for a guy. How tall is he? Anyway....he'll probably get sick from it anyway, and then he'll learn a lesson.
Your his lover, not his wife. When that changes, you'll have more of a say....for now just enjoy the differences between you two and laugh it off.
if he wants to be a pig, that's his perogative!
God Bless and Good Luck with piggie boy :)
2007-02-26 12:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that he should be eating that much bacon but I think you should let him eat it and then later talk to him about it. I really dont think you should call him fat. That will just make him want to do the opposite of what you say. Why dont you do some research on overweight people and go to him with knowledge about what that can do to his health. Tell him that you love him (Im assuming you do (; ) and that you are concerned for his health. Tell him that you arent trying to put him down or fight with him, that you really do care and you want to talk about it with him.
2007-02-26 12:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal F 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to eat anything you don't want to. Being concerned about his health is a good thing, however telling him he's fat is doing way more harm then good. By fighting with him over this is just going to make him eat even more. Putting him down and telling him he's fat is bad for his self esteem and bad for your relationship. If he's a grown man, leave him alone. He probably won't even eat it all.
2007-02-26 12:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a pre-nuptial agreement?
Tough !
pack your bags - - go home to mom.
That is not the what or the why you got married.
He wants the Bacon ,, . cook it himself.
Lazy a$$ !!
Best husband I ever met got up early, started the fire, and warmed the kitchen, made the biscuits and the coffee before his wife got up (he washed and cleaned his mess)
2007-02-26 12:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing over fatback. Thats like the man who backhands his wife because she left the cap off of the tube of toothpaste. There's a deeper reason for it than that.
2007-02-26 12:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm glad you won, but next time buy low fat bacon, or healthy turkey bacon and maybe he won't want to eat so much, and if her does it won't be as bad. or maybe he won't like the taste and won't eat as much.
2007-02-26 12:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by suzukigirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get dressed and go out and get a life insurance policy on his fat butt!
At least you'll get something from a dead man!!
2007-02-26 12:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop him, but you can refuse to participate. Tell him that you are worried about his health and that you want him to be around for a long time. Remind him that the healthier he is the better sex will be.
2007-02-26 12:30:46 · answer #11 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋