I've been sleeping with a guy who is married and he says his wife is a good friend to him but that's it they have not been intimate with each other for more than a year and they have been married for 3yrs. He says he likes me in both ways sexually and as a friend. What does this mean? I want to be with him. Will he leave his wife for me. He says he is not really attracted to her in that way anymore since she has gained weight?
2007-02-26 04:23:33 · 19 answers · asked by No way! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're nothing but a piece of a** to him, and we both know it. He ain't leaving his wife, and we both KNOW that! The only thing we DON"T know, is how long you're going to continue fooling yourself, and having NOTHING!
2007-02-26 04:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Firstly he is married, if he was going to leave his wife to be with you he would of done it. He is having his Cake and his pudding! He could tell you that he is not intimate with his wife, but he could be telling you lies. He likes you as a friend and he likes having sex with you. Is that the kind of relationship you want? Do you want to be with a guy who is cheating on wife, and on top of all that says he is not attracted to her cos she has gained weight! Give me a break! You shouldnt get involved with a guy who is married. Marriage is commitment. Would you like it if you were the wife whose hubby was cheating on her? I dont think so. Leave the guy! Find someone else, someone who will appreiate you for you! Luv u for you! All and everything of yourself.
2007-02-26 12:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's married. That's it. Right there shows the guy doesn't respect you in the first place. Think about this. If he was to leave his wife for you, what makes you think that he wouldn't turn around and cheat on you? I don't understand why you would want to be with someone like that. And 99.9% of the time, he is just using you to fill a void. Move on and stop wasting your time hunny.
2007-02-26 12:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by sheshe2387 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your married guy sounds really deep. She gained weight so now he's doing you?
More than likely this guy's not going to leave his wife. If he was a decent guy, he would have left BEFORE he started boinking you. Some married guys will tell you anything to get laid. You haven't heard her side of the story so don't get your hopes up.
2007-02-26 12:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by katydid 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is this the older co-worker that is married but always joking around and gave you a cd w/Christmas songs and told you to listen to one of them which started saying we belong together?
Wow, he got into your pants quick with that corny old routine.
I used to know this dude who used the same routine but it hardly ever worked, the women were too smart and saw through it.
Wanna buy some real estate? I can only show it to you at low tide, or I have a bridge for sale. You can use the proceeds of you sexual harrassment lawsuit as a down payment.
2007-02-26 12:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by Indiana Jones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r disgusting. i hope he gives u an STD from one of the many other women he is most likely sleeping with! And maybe he will leave his wife then he'll get u pregnant and leave u because u put on some weight! good luck!
2007-02-26 14:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Chrissilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK GIRL........OPEN your EYES!!!!
Your giving a man sex! Talk to the wife and see if the SEX story, or lack of it at home is real!!
Why would you want a married man? He's just useing you!! He probably get's sex at home all the time from the wife too!
Have respect for yourself and he should also have it for you, but DOESN'T!!!
He won't leave her for you!!!
AND think of it this way....................if he does leave her, and get's with you............are you going to GAIN WEIGHT? HUMMMM be warned!!!
2007-02-26 12:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's not going to leave her- he's using you for sex and probably lying about not sleeping with his wife also. if you've ever turned on a tv -this would all be common sense to you. You are the typical clueless,
'other woman'. Get over yourself and stop ruining other people's lives!
2007-02-26 12:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The odds are against you that he will leave her. And why would you want a man that cheated on his wife? The odds on that is he will cheat on you also. You should probably just cut the ties and walk away. It will be healthier for you in the long run.
2007-02-26 12:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by ESTamez 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is feeding you lies and your swallowing them up. If he was going to leave her..he would have done so by now. You need to leave this cheater (of course your a mistress so you dont get points) You get what you get when you get involved with a married man. You can continue to play mistress and be used or you can smarten up and dump him and move on with a man that is FREE to love ya and not be confused.....
2007-02-26 12:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋