husband anymore, what should I do?
2007-02-26 04:15:09 · 13 answers · asked by Tonya W 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First you need to figure out if it is a physical issue or an emotional issue. Did he gain weight, stop going to the gym, stop taking showers, lose an arm, etc? Or are you angry with him about something? Figure out what has happened and address that issue in the most gentle and considerate way possible. We want to make things better, not worse.
2007-02-26 04:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he gain a lot of weight? does he do things to you that you resent? does he toot in bed and it turns you off? my ex did things to me that chipped away my affection for him and he drank a lot and i mean alot and went from 5 ft 11 190 lbs to 330 lb , yet he wanted me thin~ and i remaned thin~
what u should do is decide if u want 2 stay w/someone u are not sexually attracted to. i left my ex because of the reasons that made me not sexually attracted to him anymore~
2007-02-26 12:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to think about what it was that first attracted you to him.
Think hard about what else you two have in the marriage.
Try new things in the sex department. Toys, costumes, books.
Try spicing it up yourself and see if he will follow.
IF he's a premature ejaculator, there are creams and things to help with that.
Try taking time to yourslef and masterbate and see what it is that turns you on, and when you find those things, tell hubby about them. lead him into doing what you like!!
2007-02-26 12:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need try sit down and try to figure out why and then remember what it was about him in the beginning that really got you going. Maybe you two need to spend some quality alone time together, that might help
2007-02-26 12:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you that old to stop having sex?sarah in the bible stories didnt even when she was 90 years old, she even had already given her house girl to husband becouse the hubby was active.
buy him an outfit that you think can make him sexy, before you cheat on him and destroy you marriage life.
2007-02-26 12:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by mini-haven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously were at one time. Find out what things attracted you to him, and try to find those qualities in him again. Spice things up.
2007-02-26 12:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand this... what do you think you should do? Get re-attracted to him.
2007-02-26 13:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice up your marriage.
2007-02-26 12:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Rei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to reality. Develop an overactive imagination or find something he can do for you that would make you attracted to him.
2007-02-26 12:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by Li 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage counselling
this happens in marriage and is a phase
2007-02-26 12:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋