I am constantly being asked this question by a partner of fifteen years - who is my junior. He wants the figure in pounds shillings and pence I wont let him know - its my business. Unbelievable but your opinions would be appreciated - .
2007-02-26 04:14:17 · 26 answers · asked by deep in thought 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Besides this question, only you know whether the rest of your relationship with him is pleasing and satisfying. You should also know by now that any young guy who takes in a sugar mommy is there for the sexual education as well as the financial support that you have on offer. Open your eyes to the fact that you are being used and he calls the shots for sexual and financial remuneration only. As far as he is concerned it is not emotional. Once you start closing the taps, or you inform him he gets nothing when you die, he is out of there like a shot.
Sorry to be so down to the point, but there is no other way of telling it. It is time for you to make a decision about his motives and where this relationship is heading. The wise and obvious choice is not so easy - but you know what the correct course to take is. Good luck.
2007-02-26 07:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by MaggieSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a weirdo...
Rid yourself of that person but quick, before you become the next subject of a crime show or a statistic...
I don't know how it works in Europe (you sound English?) But here... That information comes in the mail on your Social Security Statement. Don't let him get it though... Sounds weird.
It could just be curiosity? But what a morbid one it is!
2007-02-26 12:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a long time since we had pounds, shillings and pence,?
I would tell him he will not get a penny perhapes that will shut him up !!!!!
2007-02-26 12:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh??? Is he asking because he's scared he will be broke with out you? Are you ill and near the end of your life? IF NOT, then you need to be very worried!!! Very Very Very worried! I would be! Could it be he is just with you for money? You need to figure this out quickly, because being with someone like that is NOT good for you mentally, and I'm not even going to say what else he could be thinking... but I'm sure you thought it too! GOOD LUCK, I hope you can work this one out!
2007-02-26 12:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd really be worried about this guy. Why not insist that he take out a life insurance policy on himself--and see how much he's likely to give you.
In the meantime, be very careful.
2007-02-26 12:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married, do you have children together, in the absence of a will he will be automatically entitled to two thirds of your estate the children will automatically receive one third of your estate between them. If you are living together I suggest you see a solicitor and arrange to make a will. If you die intestate who knows what will happen
2007-02-26 12:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by marycatherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend's daughter asked her that many years ago as she was turning 18 and wanted to know what her ' inheiritance' would be. My friend was dumbfounded but I said to her as I walked by 1.99 and dropping by the second. Her older brother and his girlfriend fell off the couch laughing.
Someone wants to know what they're going to get when you die, tell him your funeral expenses and all your bills, you're leaving them to him.
2007-02-26 12:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzy-tish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be a little afraid of the guy. Sounds like an odd thing to wonder! Sounds like he can't have the right feelings for you!
2007-02-26 12:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by karenhar 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats not a very nice question for him to ask of you. I would ask him "Why do you want to know?" maybe it's time to find a knew partner : / its never too late! or better yet , answer him this "Nothing, why?" HA!
2007-02-26 13:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by KOI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking out for trip wires at the top of the stairs.
2007-02-26 12:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋