my husband just got a 2nd job today so he is going to be working from 7 in the morning to 2 pm then at 4 till 10pm. my 2yr old son is also going to start going to daycare part time. im afraid that im going to be capable of cheating on him since im going to be alone for the first time. What should i do?
2007-02-26 04:06:23 · 15 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't give urself the chance to cheat. Don't flirt. Don't talk to ex's. Keep urself busy. Buy a toy and get a sexy pic of ur huband to look at while he is gone.
Before i was married i was always worried that i wouldn't be able to be faithful because most of the married women i knew were cheating on their husbands.
So I pretty much do what i said above. And what really helps is that i always think to myself 'how would i feel if my hubby did/said this to another woman?' i basically put myself in his shoes and seeing as how im very jealous this has stopped me from doing a lot.
Think of all that you have (love, happiness, stability, hard working man) is sex really worth losing all that?
2007-02-26 07:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissilicious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Frankly I think many of you are being to hard on this girl. She has a 2 year old, she is now in a position for the first time in her life where she will be alone. Now I am not suggesting that you cheat, but those of you standing in judgement are not giving a mature answer to a question that all of you find so immature.
Like others have suggested, a part-time job, and or counseling to find out why you have these feelings that you need to control.
2007-02-26 12:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by finished 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all, you need a job.. I think that it is sad that you married someone knowing that you were not the faithful type. If you can not commit yourself to one person, than why did you get married in the first place? It sounds like you have a great husband, and he doesn't deserve you.
2007-02-26 12:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Get a part time Job as well, Then you will also have a little income to Help your Husband.
2007-02-26 12:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by D.J.4ever 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whether you cheat on him or not is entirely up to you. If you cannot control yourself, you need to take some big heavy metal tool from the garage and clobber yourself in the head.
You don't deserve to have a husband who is willing to work that hard so you can stay at home with your child.
2007-02-26 12:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You'll be alone and therefore you can't trust yourself to remain faithful? You need more than advice from here if you have that low opinion of yourself.
Its frightening to think that you can vote. No wonder we have an idiot at the helm of government.
2007-02-26 12:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you might as well go ahead and cheat now; since undoubtedly you will be alone sooner or later; might as well get it overwith so your husband, who is working his a*( off can divorce you and find someone who will appreciate him
2007-02-26 12:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dang girl.............keep your panties on!!
It sounds like the hubby or baby don't deserve you at all..............they deserve so much better out of you as a wife and mother!!
Go get a JOB so hubby doesn't have to be working his *** off for a CHEATER!!!
2007-02-26 12:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
How about you start to contribute to the household and get a job....perhaps grow up while your at it.
2007-02-26 12:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
grow the hell up buy a batterie operated toy and stay faithfull or leave him
2007-02-26 12:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by Amber P 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋