2007-02-26 04:06:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You actually have to ask this question? If you're a typical heterosexual male, then this is a dream come true!
2007-02-26 04:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there, this response comes to you from Canada.
Is that right, you ask? Hmmm, as everyone has already pointed out, for heterosexual men, they believe it's right, but that may be because heterosexual men are nothing more that sex-starved perverts who can't seem to get enough, so they suggest it to their partners in hopes of 'spicing up a relationship'.
You mentioned in your question, your 'girlfriend' - I have to ask, is this person your 'love-mate' or just that a 'girl - friend'?
Ask yourself, what are you afraid of and what's stopping you from going forward with this endeavour. Are you afraid that you may hurt one of the two parties? Perhaps getting hurt yourself?
The doubts you may experience are not unusual, but perhaps they are only a sign that your morals are kicking in, reminding you of your lessons during your childhood-upbringing. Don't be hard on yourself if you choose NOT to go through with it. Try to explain to your girlfriend that you are not ready to open up your personal sex-life that liberally.
If she dumps you, well she really turned out to be something special - however - if she loves you, she will wait until you are ready.
I wish you luck.
BGA
2007-02-26 12:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is what makes a relationship special. when you start introducing 3rd parties into your bedroom, it ruins that special bond. sex no longer become something you "only do with her"
if she truly loves you, i can't see why she would want you sleeping with any one else, especially a best friend.
then again, if your relationship is not serious and if it is more about having fun sex, then go for it. it all really depends on what you and her want out of the relationship.
bottom line, if you do sleep with her best friend, then things between her and her friend will never be the same.. it could cause their friendship to fall apart.. what if the best friend decides she wants you as a bf? then they would start fighting. not good.. so lots of risk here for what would essentially be minimal rewards for you.. do you really "need" to sleep with her friend??
2007-02-26 12:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a hetro man, then is are you REALLY worrying about whether it's right or wrong. Seems like it's usually a str8 man's dream come true. But if you really are concerned, think about your relationship and if it's worth it. Things can get kind of weird after situations like that and you won't be prepared for them.
2007-02-26 12:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It will cause problems between you're friend and her boyfriend. My sister wanted to have a threesome with her boyfriend and best friend. The best friend is no longer around and my sister is a single mother of two kids. It tore her and the boyfriend apart. Very bad idea. I would tell you're best friend you don't want to.
2007-02-26 12:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it wasn't right, the question would not have been asked. Peace
2007-02-28 02:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by WB2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know many guys that would love to be in your shoes, but if you do not feel confortable doing it, then dont. . . but some say that what you wont do, some one else will......
2007-02-26 13:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you feel about it. If you wanna then good for you and yippy doo...if you don't then don't do it and yippy doo
2007-02-26 12:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I join in?
2007-02-26 12:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say so!
why brag to us?
2007-02-26 13:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋