how to get what we want and want what we have ?

Answer 1

Be happy.




How to be happy:

Don't worry about things that you should not be worrying about.
Figure out what is important enough to worry about(hint: there is not very much, food, shelter, freedom, life, probably a couple of others). Everything else you should not stress over. Do not stress over problems, figure out when you are going to take care of them, and what you are going to do, or if you don't know what to do, figure out when you will be able to know. Then worry about it at that time only.
Make sure you do the things necessary to perpetuate the way of life you want, and can continue or grow as you wish (like training skills to get a good job, or going to school). Don't put artificial deadlines in place, just make sure you keep on going down the path. Constantly stressing over how your goals have not been met is not the way to go about it. Just figure out something productive that you can to do to keep going.
You also can't just want something to happen, or hope it is going to happen, or wish for something to happen. You must _know_ that it is going to happen. There is a big difference. This works both ways. If you know, for a fact, that something bad is going to happen, it is a lot more likely to happen.
Be happy. There are not very many reasons to not be happy... unless you are looking for them. Then you will always find something to get you down. Just smile.

This is hard to do if you are emotionally dependant or involved with somebody else, as you both will be feeding off of each other and making each other happy/miserable, so why figure out how to do it on your own? You usually must figure out how to be happy when you are alone, unfortunately. That way you can not hide behind somebody else. You have to come to terms with who you really are.


Finally, nobody can teach you all of this that I have typed above. You have to figure it out for yourself. When I was a little kid people would always tell me, "It is all in your attitude. You can take life in whatever way you want it. You can be bored, or not." (since it was usually when I was very bored of some place) I could not understand how to do that, and I seriously doubted them. But once I figured it out for myself, I realized how true it is...

Answer 2

Reaching that stage where things are within grasp or control at will, require more than mere talent to ascertain this accomplishment. You have to be blessed somewhat in the possession of such an opportunity, and assistance from whomever around to grand you this privilege of dominance. To achieve the initial headway, you need to have wealth before embarking on any of the scheme.

You create the assistance and open up the opportunity by extending your wealth in the working of good relations, especially those that favor your manipulations towards the intended objectives. To maintain this particular wants and perpetually with no restriction, we require not only the aplenty of wealth, but also power to control the events and make good the situation. These are the two most powerful tools to modify or change things around at will. Do you have it?

Answer 3

How to get what we want?You must have alacrity without this, all you do will be a failure.


2Corinthians 8:12 For if the readiness is there, it is acceptable according as a man hath, not according as he hath not.

How to want what we have? Live in simplicity.Live the Christian life.

Philippians 1:27 Only let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ: that, whether I come and see you or be absent, I may hear of your state, that ye stand fast in one spirit, with one soul striving for the faith of the gospel;

Answer 4

Determination and self-satisfaction. If we've got both then we can acheive our goals and love what we have and never ask for more.

Answer 5

It's called work and positive thinking.

Setting goals and putting a reasonable time on it.