Ok, I met a man and he was engaged and they were to get married, and had a church booked. And he was with me for two months, and three days before the wedding he dropped the other one, I pressured him some, and he did. Then he married me.
Now she wants to come to this country, and applied for a visa, to
marry another man. I do not want her to come, so I went to the police and told them that she called me and e-mailed me bad stuff. She did not, but I said so they stopped her. And they did not. I thought to complain to the Interpol.
I do not want her, because she had a baby, and my husband will have to pay child support. And he just bought me a new car and I want a fir coat.
2007-02-26 03:41:51 · 17 answers · asked by kurg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if the baby is your husbands than he has a responsibility to pay child support. And if the woman wants to come here as long as it's legal, then why not?!
I think that you are very materialistic, why don't you buy your own fir coat and let your husband worry about the baby and the responsibility he has to it.
2007-02-26 03:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun, um, I hate to break it to you, but I think you may be barking up the wrong tree. I mean, most of us here have a heart!What did you think we were gonna advise you to do? Beat her up or somethin?!!
Shame on you! I can honestly say you did not marry for love, rather you married for what you could get out of this guy. So you married him, came to the states, and now your wishes are his command! Hey, to each his own, but when you start messing with innocent children that's where you NEED to draw a line. If this child is in fact his, then he NEEDS to support this child. No one put a gun to his head and told him to sleep with that other girl. It takes two, and apparently he was all for that!
So, now, you need to acknowledge the fact that the world does NOT revolve around YOU and your inhumane desire for a fur coat! There is a child at stake, and if you had ANY smarts, you would HELP your husband bring the woman with her child here. If your husband sees you actually care about others, not only yourself, he might just feel compelled enough to grant you your wish for a fur coat as a reward for being so cooperative.
Now, that said, you really went out of your way to try and screw this girl's chances. You may even get away with it for now, but I promess you sooner or later all your sins will seek you out. And the revenge that life will take on you for being so selfish and cold-hearted will make you wish you had cared at least a tiny bit about other people. Good luck to you, you're gonna need it.
2007-02-26 12:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not what you want gal, u cant control others lives.
If she wants to come to this country, she has the right.
And if your hubby got her pregnant, then he ought to pay child support and DNA test dont lie.
Material world is no reason for this kind of attitude.
U need an attitude adjustment. Let her alone and worry about your happiness and get along with the other lady cause she has precious cargo(baby) that will effect u for life or at least 18 yrs of child support.
Think MATURE AND MORE POSITIVE>!
2007-02-26 11:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your helping your husband to be a bad father? That's his responsibility no matter which country the child lives, he should at least give some financial support to them.
2007-02-26 12:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by justme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are selfish and misguided. If he fathered the baby you should not be interfering with the child's right to support, particularly because you want a fur coat!
2007-02-26 11:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a ho. I can't believe you're surprised about any of this stuff. Is it because you know he dumped her 3 days before the wedding, so you know there's a high likelihood he's going to treat you the same way?
2007-02-26 12:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was wrong of you. If your husband wants you it doesn't matter if she comes or not. You need to really look at this differently so that you don't come off as shallow. You do know that what you did was also illegal!!!
2007-02-26 11:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by ooh2sweet2b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you selfish greedy nasty vial woman how could you steal anothers love deny a child money so you can wear fur if i was her and i got over here and i hope she does id kick the stuffing out of you and suck him dry for support.you steal from the child so you can have comphorts dispicable
2007-02-26 11:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by Leanne B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy aren't we the selfish one if its his kid he needs to pay for it and by you lying about things and reporting things that aren't true could lead you into jail. Also you know that this web site is monitored by law enforcement including the FBI and you have just acknowledge that you lied to law enforcement and they know where you live already and you could be arrested.
2007-02-26 11:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mary O 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have concluded that both you and your husband deserve each other. Hopefully, he has enough decency to take care of the child appropriately.
2007-02-26 11:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋