Thanks for the good response... I think I am very crazy and very demanding on others but I cant help it. In my home every1 is very very busy and thats the reason I depend alot on friends. I want to be independent but still I depend on others. I know there is no mistake of my friend, she is the way she is and I should accept her. I know I should not be desperate but I am v lonely, how can I live my life alone, no body have time to spend with me thats very frustrating. I have friends who wants me to be with them but I am not comfortable with them and the people I am comfortable with dont have time for me. I am not childish and dont anybody dare to call me childish. You guys r here to help me and if u cant help me then atleast dont be rude and spoil my mood. Thanks for every1's so called help!!!
2007-02-26 03:38:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u seems very confused, lost, upset and desperate to get her back. I disagree with the way you feel and things put across.
Did you ever ask her abt the way you feel? Are you sure she is just friend to you? I deem so.
Everything actions comes with a reason. You actions may hv scare her off. Friends should be truthful to each other. Tell her how you feel. I am sure she will understand.
Do not ignore her as this may driven her off. This is not your intention!
Ask yourself are you harsh to her at times. If you ever did that and she still stand by you all these times. This shows she cares. She knows your inner feeling but if you are not admitting it, why should she burst it. Saving your pride and "face" dear.
Guess the best way to resolve your problem now. Put your pride aside and be honest to her. You may get the result you wish for. Never try never know.
2007-02-26 04:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for you, at least you're honest with your feeling and the way you reacted for your friends. Nevertheless, those habit of yours is not really worth keeping. I think, the main reason for your attitude is like that....because your family doesn't have a chance to bond with you always. You are trying to find a friend or friends who can replace them. But, you cant'? You know why? Your character must be change in the first place, then everything will be changed. Try to think always as a new person, with oozing self-confidence and learning things to accept the changes. other people needs other people. You are not the one who need but other people needs you.
Change your outlook in life and change for the better. You can find life is so beautiful, wotrh-living for.....like the new YOU.
2007-02-26 11:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by FX777222999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So who are you? Find out, spend some time alone - write a list of what you like, where you would like to be in life, all the fantastic aims and objectives that you have never stopped to consider--- make a plan - then Live It you will be surprised who and what you find --likeminded people, real true friends and happiness like you have never known.
I begins with a quiet time a list and the determination to take that first step go on do it bet you can.......YOU are special WHY NOT!!
2007-02-26 11:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you not only expect far too much out of others but that you also expect far too much out of YOU. From personal experience I know that you are NEVER alone but I can't prove that to you.If you would be willing , instead of asking for things to come to you, you could try asking what you can do for others. Ask to be relieved of the chaos of your thinking, ask to be relieved of the burden of selfishness that has you in a stranglehold. Even if you don't believe it can work, can you be willing to believe there is something much greater than you that will help you with your problems nd situation??.
My life was a lonely, terrible and empty one for many years until something happened to me that I cannot completely understand or describe but it changed me and now I live a happy, joyous and free life.My prayers and houghts are with you--- and if no one else tells yu today---- I love you
2007-02-26 11:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crazy helps me get through the day. just enjoy your life chat to everybody and keep smiling that's the best thing you can do. If people don't have time that's because they are busy sorting things out in there own lives you don't know what they have to do in their lives to keep going so give them some space they'll come back to you when they need you most. live your life to the best of your ability that's all you can do don't waste it hanging around for people. get out there go to a club, cinema, night club, bar.
2007-02-27 03:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by perry1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club. I don't think it is crazy to worry over your relationships. Ultimately it's what everyone else does as well. Normal and frustrating.
As to how to be alone, I find the computer (games and Internet) and books a good escape when people are not around. Sometimes I even prefer to escape into them.
Good Luck.
2007-02-26 11:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by mince42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,i dont think your crazy i think you sound a little bit insecure,what about assertive training,it worked for me,it may not be your thing,but it boosted my confidence,im not so shy anymore and im quite happy with my own as well as other peoples company,you should give it go its a real ego booster and very empowering,good luck.
2007-02-26 11:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy you just don't have friends that have time for you. Maybe you should try to make new friends and if it does work at least you tried. Good luck with everything!!
2007-02-26 11:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't you got some homework you should be doing?
2007-02-26 11:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i believe crazy is as crazy does
2007-02-26 11:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋