Hun, it's a win-win situation.....because dont get me wrong now cheaters can repent.....but then on the other hand there's just some guys who will never grow up......so you just gotta use yo womens intution ......then narrow your alternatives......like if u love then....how deep your relationship is with him....and so on and so forth........well if you need to kno somethin else ....you kno where to find me.
2007-02-26 04:29:25
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answered by Lil Mama 2
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Yes, I do believe that once a cheater always a cheater. Why? Well some guys and or girls just have to have variety and they can't help it. Then there's the bed hopping because some guy and girls think that this is a way to find the right one. At least this is what I have found out to be true. But I would want to be stuck with someone who is going to cheat on me, I 'd rather live alone.
2007-02-26 11:48:51
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answered by Dee G 2
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False, Given the dynamics of relationships you can not label people that way. Just like anything else that is a global statement. Most times the affair is just the tip of the iceberg there are always much more under the surface. Sometimes it's people who can not have just a single relationship the quest of the hunt for example. People make stupid mistakes being in the wrong place/wrong time etc. Just take it on a case by case basis if there is a pattern then trust the pattern if it is not a pattern in a person then more than likely won't happen. The best way to avoid it is communication, love and respect of your partner.
2007-02-26 12:43:16
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answered by chancesare45 4
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True ... being a cheat has to do with having little or no value for people and a very low self esteem and generally cheaters do this so they can feel good about themselves and it works for them and that's all they care about. Until they experience something really bad as a result like (getting an STD, getting someone pregnant) and even then they may not change.
2007-02-26 11:43:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Once someone has cheated, they may cheat every chance they get, or they may never cheat again, but their spouse will never be able to trust them again. The fear that they may cheat again will always be in the back of his or her mind. So, once a cheater, aways a cheater. True.
2007-02-26 12:53:24
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answered by Tiss 6
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I would say for the most part true. BUT if you really think about it this only applies to a few. If there is cheating going on (by either one) there is a reason for this. But if this problem IS addressed then there would no longer be a reason for cheating. AS SUCH the cheating should come to an end.
2007-02-26 12:15:18
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answered by GRUMPY 7
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There is no reason to cheat ,if there is something wrong talk it or get out.Cheating fixes nothing it creates a path
of Lies , dishonesty, lose of respect, an catching bugs,of all kinds.They may not cheat again,but there will always be doubt in the relationship.& someday there will be a dissagrement & it will be there. Just my thought.
2007-02-26 12:08:45
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answered by Anonymous
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True 85% of the time, I'd say.
There are some people who truely feel bad for what they did, and they make changes to their life to make sure it won't happen again. But most of the time, the things that make a person cheat don't change. They figure they got away with it once, they can get away with it again.
2007-02-26 11:44:58
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answered by Sean J 5
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Yes, that would follow like all stereotypes. Ergo, once a bedwetter, always a bedwetter...do you still wet the bed? Or did you outgrow it with learning to go before bedtime and control? Think!
2007-02-26 12:10:16
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answered by wetdreamdiver 5
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i don't believe this is true b/c when i was younger i used to always cheat on my boyfrieds but with my current boyfriend of 2 years, i love him so much and he gives me everything i need so i don't want to cheat on him and i never would. i think that people cheat because they aren't getting everything they need from the relationship. communication is key and it always helps to talk about issues.
2007-02-26 11:42:25
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answered by Anonymous
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