It has been almost two months since me and my husband have had any type of communications. He stopped talking to me even when I would try to talk to him, and I didn't even do anything to make him. This isn't the first time this has happened but I am tired of being made to feel like I have done something wrong when I haven't; we have been married for sixteen years, I am just ready to get out; wouldn't you be?
2007-02-26 03:33:26 · 12 answers · asked by tt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
something is seriously wrong here~ since he won't talk 2 u then type him a dear john letter stating why you are leaving him and leave it at that and pack your stuff and get a damn good lawyer and divorce him and....you know the rest~
2007-02-26 05:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you communicate with him? Are you asking him why he's treating you this way? Be pro-active in your marriage it's definitely something you want to work on. It's a sacred arrangement and you want to honor your vows. But if he leaves you no other choice....then you know what needs to be done. But try hard to get to the core of the problem. You might just find out that all this time you'll could have worked through whatever it is that causing him to be so withdrawn from you. My advice is to give it your best effort and take it from there....Hope this helps! Stay positive!
2007-02-26 12:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Always Camera Ready 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
write a note to him and tell him that if you are the problem as to why he is not talking you are ready to give him space, and if the problem is something else you are ready to offer help in any passionate way he would wish you to. by the way you have said that this not the first time.what unlocked the stalemate the other time? try doing the same.
how old are you?
do you think people out there talk all the time?
are you so talkative?
did you tell him something to upset him?
do you suspect he has something to hide?
has something big happend in your lives that might have brought about this?
show him the back as well, it might wake him up.
invite a male friend in the house a keep talking to him when the guy is in the house ,the jealouse in him will wake him up.
good luck!!!
2007-02-26 12:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by mini-haven 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have the right to be fed up. I think you need to confront your husband and see whats up. Ask him why he is acting so immature and that you deserve enough respect and an answer. There has to be a reason and maybe you are unaware. You are not a child its almost like he punishes you do not accept this behavior.
2007-02-26 11:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by jjeano661 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been there and almost did walk - then we found out that my husband suffered from depression, he is medicated and is a different person. Look into it - sounds like that could be the problem.
http://www.med.nyu.edu/psych/screens/depres.html
2007-02-26 12:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Zabes 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a talk with him see what he wants to do. Be straight foward. Ask if he want a d==== That will open the door.For what he has on his mind. Good luck
2007-02-26 11:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
almost 2 months is way way too long for anyone to not talk; there seems to be a serious issue here
2007-02-26 11:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if there is no communication then really there is no marriage so yes i would feel that it would be pointless to stay married. i would divorce him.
2007-02-26 11:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like an impossible situation.
2007-02-26 11:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep......two months ago I would have had one foot out the door
2007-02-26 11:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋