that are in a relationship going to strip clubs? I just don't understand why it is "ok" for a man to gawk at other women. Even get a lap dance, and stuff money down there g-strings. Why do men need to go there for bachlor parties and when "just the guys" go out. Why would they need to get exited or arroused with a bunch of men around? Some woman dont care if there men go and even go with them. Why do I get so angry about this. I know my man isn't going to "cheat on me" so why do I feel like he is when he goes to these places?
2007-02-26 02:57:21 · 4 answers · asked by runzwsizorz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To begin with I have always sought out a higher form of entertainment than watching broads strip and wiggle their money-maker around. Not that I find this repulsive or a turn-off but I have considerably better things to do with my hard earned money than slip into into the g-string of an exotic dancer.
The reason you feel this way is because you're jealous. Oh not green-eyed furious jealous but it's that twinge of it that eats at you. After all....he's enjoying the skin of someone else and you (like most women) reserve nudity, sex and all sorts of other intimate sexual acts for one person and one person only. So you feel cheated and second rate. Now...how old is your "man"? Hopefully he'll mature enough and push this type of "entertainment" aside and find another diversion.
2007-02-26 03:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's your opinion and you are entitled to it. Your spouse should respect that you feel this way and stay away from strip clubs. Single men can do what they want and some woman don't mind their spouse going, but this isn't about other people it is about you and how you feel about it. If you feel betrayed by this, let your man know. If he loves and respects you, he will stay away from strip clubs. If he chooses to ignore your feelings, you may want to reevaluate your relationship.
2007-02-26 11:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because we're in a commited relationship, doesn't mean we all don't like to look at the selection. Loving someone doesn't mean you have to be blind to the sexuality of others. Looking and touching are two different things, and visual stimulation is something most humans crave. If you are confident in your relationship, there should be no problem trusting your partner to be faithful to you.
2007-02-26 11:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you get all fired up.Most men,when they get back home,have some good sex with gf/wife,
2007-02-26 11:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋