i'm tired of being shy in my little shell I wanna be fun talkative and sexy without being mean just so I can be a more likable person and not a boring person.thanx for ur help i'll take what u said and try it.I hope it work and plz don't answer this question if u don't know what ur talking about or if u don't know the answer and don't get smart with me becuz that's not nice :( god bless u!!!!
2007-02-26 02:53:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Spirit is what makes a person sexy.
2007-02-26 03:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
make sure you are all perfect...clean hair,teeth ears,nostrils if you smoke.Clean clothes..not real trashy but attractive.Now go out.Do you know that a sweet shy smile is the most attractive thing? Never mind talking your head off about nothing.Ask noninvasive guestions and give honest answers.Its ok to admit that you are shy..maybe the guy you meet is too.Its all about communication..you dont get yourself in trouble if you keep your mouth shut.But you win points for a smile or some personal gesture like touching an arm or reaching for a hand
2007-02-26 11:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by evon stark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus be yourself.... get freaked out.. and always hv a smile on ur face... u will look more sexy than u wanna be....
talk sensible or else u will land up ur self in touble... be friendly, nice nd specially respect guyz(this is most imp).. if u dont they also will not respect u nd then make fun of u...
BE brave and bold enough 2 handle things
2007-02-26 11:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by 007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your profile it looks like you are a girl and I was a shy girl too for a long time. Here is my best tip to you and it does work.. but be careful.. It might work too good. Be very selective on who you try this on.
Here goes... Look your person you want to talk to carefully.. try not to stare.. lol.. Hopefully they are wearing some jewelry or have something with them like a book, or maybe a tatoo or maybe a different shirt or if its a girl, an interesting purse, jewelry or hairdo. Now get next to that person and say: That's an interesting ring, bracelet, whatever.. Was that a gift from somebody special or did you pick it out? Hopefully they will talk to YOU.. about the bracelet.. if they say they bought it.. talk about yourself and how you love to look at the new jewelry styles.. then you can talk about new season colors and fashion. Now, I thought I would work this on a man. He had a different hair do with some braiding and a nice bracelet. So I said "That is a beautiful bracelet, did you get it as a gift?" He looked at me like I threw a glass of water in his face. It certainly got his attention. He said 'in fact yes, somebody did give it to me'. I said well I hope it was something good like a birthday. (as opposed to inheriting it from a dead relative). He said yes it was a good gift. I got it for my high school graduation and I like to wear it when I'm not going to do anything where it could be broken. So I asked what kind of style that was and was it comfortable on his wrist. He told me about how much he like it and how he wanted to save up enough money to get another one that he liked. We parted at that time.
The next time I saw him he was all over me. and all I had to do was smile and say hello.. what's happening?!
Now the next time I saw him, I told him I was trying to get over being shy and he was part of an experiment.. I figured he deserved to know. by the way, this is a good way to excuse yourself from somebody you decide you DON'T want to continue talking to .. at least as a possible date. He said "You're kidding. You sure don't seem shy." He told me he was so happy that I talked to him and he felt so good about himself afterwards that he went out of his way to run into me again. Now he didn't feel rejected or anything because I was much older than him. and we are still "speaking aquaintences" to this day.
It works! Practice on people you already know. Start a conversation before they do. Even friends you have have already, will be happy that you are noticing something about them and take the time to talk about "what's new" with them, and good luck! I know how you feel. After a while it gets easier and yes.. just talking to a man is sexy.. to them anyway. They are like puppies.. they love attention. Use a friendly tone of voice and give good eye contact. "You Will Succeed" (hugs)
2007-02-26 11:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself...just more outgoing....walk into ANY and ALL rooms with your head held high...like you own it...don't walk in like all clumsy with your head down
*Look people in the eyes
*start conversations with other people
*sign up for clubs or activites so you can meet new people
*Take care of your apperience...im not going to tell you how to dress...you wear what YOU FEEL COMFERTABLE in
**SMILE**
*overall just be yourself but try to talk to more people...it's scary but it will work!....theres a say to do one thing everyday that scares you........
So you got it...just be yourself and have a good time!
2007-02-26 11:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some of the shy guys are the sexest and coolest to be around just be a little more flirty...
2007-02-26 10:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by oreo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love you, say I love myself.
2007-02-26 11:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rosebonbonsmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence!
2007-02-26 10:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Alexa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋