hi guyz.....i hav a very peculiar habit which i think i should share with u all...... im a 19 yr old indian girl...my vital stats is 34-28-34....... i hav a wheatish complextion ( much of an indian colour) my height is 5'7" but the problem is that i sometimes feel like i look very beautifull but at some other times i think that i look like an ugly duckling ...!!!!! this confusion is efecting my confidence level... & i tend to get consious abt my looks all the times......plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz advice...
2007-02-26 02:37:09 · 30 answers · asked by sus_mystery 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What makes a person beautiful is not just what can be seen on the exterior...I have seen some very attractive people, but wouldn't use the word beautiful in the same sentence with their name. Are you kind, caring, generous and loving? Those are qualities you must posses to be beautiful in my eyes. Be beautiful from the inside out...and be comfortable in your own skin. Take care of yourself, and hold your head high, but not so high that you are looking down on everyone else, and then my dear you will know how it feels to be truly beautiful. Our looks will fade with age, but our beauty will not.
2007-02-26 02:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It Doesnt Matter What You Look Like You Were Born That Way And SHould Be Pleased With How You Look Because Your Unique Looks Arnt Everything As Long As You Have A Lovey Personatily Your A Great Person Looks Dont Help With Anything Its Your Personality Hope I Helped x
2007-02-26 10:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by chloeebee_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes beautiful people outside are not so nice inside. You sound lucky enough to be both attractive and nice. Please don't dwell so much on your looks. You KNOW you look good - most Indian women do. I don't think you are being honest when you say you think you look like an ugly duckling. What would you do if one person said to you that you are not attractive. Would you believe that? Of course not! Stop worrying about public opinion. I'll bet you have lots of suitors. Keep your confidence up, kiddo!
2007-02-26 18:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 19, your confidence can be up and down every other minute. You are beautiful only if your allow yourself to feel that way. Your heart needs to feel it, not just your body. Self confidence is very important and you shouldn't let others effect it. Parents and family are usually the culprits in that matter. Don't let them shoot you down for that. Being Asian, family play an important role in our confidence and appearance. Cultural values and traditions dictate on how we should look and act in public as well as in private and that interferes with a lot of the younger crowd. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. You are and can be as beautiful as YOU choose to be. The first step is letting your heart ease your mind of that. Others can't see your beauty until your heart does.
Good luck and I hope you remain beautiful always!
=)
2007-02-26 10:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to look in the mirror to see your beauty. Beauty radiates from confidence and confident-behavior such as smiling, being assertive, and also being/talking kindly to others. Building others up makes a person pretty.
This is why being like a celebrity doesn't work so well because they don't put in the effort to try to please others. So while they might look pretty on the cover of a magazine they don't live a full life in the real world since they don't radiate humbleness or the love of life like ordinary folks do.
P.S.
Nutritional foods help blood flow, and when enough blood reaches the brain more positive thoughts come out from it. So please, continue to eat healthy for yourself and for others, so they can see the real you!
2007-02-26 10:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem... when i look in the mirror, i think i look really hot and feel really confident. But my school uses lots of video to communicate with other classes doing the same things we are... and when i look at myself on camera, i think i'm really ugly! I know this is hard, but the best way to get over it is just to not worry about it so much. Wear clothes that you feel comfortable (and beautiful) in. As long as you have enough confidence to know that you are beautiful inside, the outside will take care of itself. Confidence makes you 10x more attractive.... believe me
2007-02-26 10:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by I run... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it really matter to you what we see? We are no better judge than you. If you feel good about yourself (the real "you", not the reflection in the mirror), then you are beautiful. It is more important to be beautiful on the inside. Really! Anna Nicole seemed to have great looks (according to some people whom I question their eyesight), but, in reality she was nothing more than a gold-digger. If you believe in your heart you are a wonderful person, then you are. Only you know your heart.
2007-02-26 10:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by dragunov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you change the way you thinck about yourself is because beauty comes from within ! And every time you feel bad you feel ugly, and when you feel happy you feel beatyfull. I know this all souns like mambo jambo, but thinking positive and feeling good about yourself, in time transforms you, and makes ppl see you the way you really feel. Atitude and positive thinking is everything. The world around us is only what we make of it. "What you see is what you get" no no no...I would rather say.. What you feel is what you get !
2007-02-26 10:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Conscript 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step to other people thinking that you are beautiful is thinking that you are bezutiful. If you go around saying that you are ugly that is going to make everyone else feel the same way.
2007-02-26 10:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by crimsontwilight2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, by your stats I would say," damn girl, you fine." the hight is also good, the colour is good, now by your stats I would say that you are a normal weight and believe me don't care about what others say, you are beautiful now don't let that jelous little voice in your head order you around, tell it who's boss.
2007-02-26 10:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋