how do i tell me g/f i might be bi? help.
2007-02-26 02:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by rick k 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is no reason to tell her unless you are planning to cheat on her.
2007-02-26 02:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not gay but I do know that this is the oldest question in the world. You are not the first or the last person on this earth who suddenly discovered the truth about your sexual preference. The honest answer is this; Be Honest.
If she leaves you because of this, then C'est La vie. It certainly wont be the first or the last time this has happened to anyone. Don't worry about it. If she goes, then its a whole world out there. Plenty more where she came from.
However, if she does accept your honesty and decides to stay with you anyway, then think about the possibilities! How wonderful it is to find someone who can truly love you and stick with you, no matter what!
Think lucky, and tell her the truth. You will be glad that you did.
2007-02-26 10:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you monogomous? If so, first tell her that she is the only one for you. But, at a later time, let her know that you're bi - and again reassure her that she is the only person that you are having sexual relations with. Did I just write "sexual relations" - I sound like a former President, LOL!
2007-02-26 11:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is really open minded I would tell her but if she not you are risking losing her be careful you might just lose the person you love....
2007-02-26 10:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how serious your relationship is. at some point in a relationship you need to stop wearing masks and show yourself fully to the other person. if this is where you are then you should discuss these feelings with her.
2007-02-26 10:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...tell her if you are "sure". Saying "I might be" will add confusion to an already complicated scenario.
2007-02-26 10:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man just be honest.the worst thing you could do is keep it a secret. who knows, maybe she might like that. I know I might. (JK) seriously, if she doen't accept it screw her. let her go
2007-02-26 10:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋