I think they might be upset :(
2007-02-26 02:02:03 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks everyone for your help.... and I do live alone I am not dependant on them at all we do have a very very good relationship though.
And to 'patricia' you are just mean!!! I wasn't asking a question about "am I gay" I was asking how to tell my parents!!!! You should think of people's feelings before saying things like that
2007-02-26 02:45:46 · update #1
Thanks everyone for your help.... and I do live alone I am not dependant on them at all we do have a very very good relationship though.
And to 'patricia' you are just mean!!! I wasn't asking a question about "am I gay" I was asking should I tell my parents!!!! You should think of people's feelings before saying things like that
2007-02-26 02:46:22 · update #2
patricia is totally mad and it will be a sad day for her when one of her kids DOES come home to say mum im GAY !! even if your parents are upset they will come round your there son and nothing aint gonna change that ! if it was one of my kids i have to say id be gutted but id still love them and whoever it was they chose as a partner x good lucky darling x
2007-02-27 00:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by maddie xx 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, as the loving sister of a flaming gay man, I can tell you that when you do decide it won't be easy. If they are good-hearted people, then they should love their son regardless. Which, they probably will. But don't be too upset if it ain't an easy pill to swallow. Always remember it is not a way of life for everyone. It is your way of life, and you are the only person who truly needs to be comfortable with it. Others will come around to accepting your lifestyle if they truly care about your happiness. Only tell them when you are completely comfortably with the subject yourself. Be patient and willing to answer any questions, and be as truthful as you can. You are their child, no matter what, let them know that their acceptance/tolerance is important to you. Be ready to give them time and space to adjust, and you should be okay!! Good luck!!
2007-02-26 02:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Shyla B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father didn't talk to me for 5 years after I came out. I don't want to scare you, but it was VERY hard for my parents to come to terms with the situation. Even if your parents are completely ok with it, spring dates and whatnot on them slowly. They'll need a little time to adjust. Also, I suggest making sure that you are financially independant before making this decision. Good luck!
2007-02-26 02:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by greenbuddha03 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They might have a feeling that you are anyways, if you have never brought a girl home before. I've got a friend in the same position, he's decided not to tell them. But I wasn't at all surprised when he came out to friends.
2007-02-26 02:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by Suzie's_Secret_Society 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day we each must take our own path. If you are gay and you feel strongly enough to admit it, then you must chance your parents getting upset. Most parents do get upset but remember, it took you time to realize who you are, now you will need to give them the same time to accept.
2007-02-26 02:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think a little white lie won't hurt? Maybe you can set somebody up as gay, and see how they react. If it's less than favorable, maybe you can hold back a little. But, if you can't help it, and you feel like telling, I think you should. Parents are supportive of their children (not always, though). I wish you luck.
2007-02-26 02:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by nausea guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Families usually know one another more than most, however if you really think that they are going to be upset why not let things be for the moment. A right time may come soon, perhaps it may never come. Get on with your life meantime.xx
2007-02-26 02:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Raymo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
at the end of the day, it's your life and you have to live it. if telling them upsets them, so be it. we can't all live in a perfect world where everyone lives how we think they should live. good luck, hope you don't get a hard time of it and that they understand that this is the way it is !
2007-02-26 02:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by price 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances, are they know already. I never really officially came out to my parents, but they asked me one day, and well they said that they knew for a while. So, if you think they'll get upset, maybe just let it ride for awhile unitl you are ready. Don't force it. Good luck!
2007-02-26 04:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by FORNIDO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just hold off till you find the right moment, trust me its going to be very hard for you if you were to tell them right now....is there really the need to tell them?? Wait for the very right moment or at least till you know that you have a place to stay just in case they kick you out!
2007-02-26 02:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋