So finally, I am going to ignore my friend to whom I really care but she dsnt care for me as much as I care for her. I do everything to cheer her up even when she wants to be alone I try my best to talk to her and solve her problem but she never does the same for me. I dont want to ignore her but I hv to, I showed her today like my mood is not good so I didnt talk properly to her but I was not rude also. I didnt show her that I am angry with her I just showed her my mood is off, she just asked me thrice what is the reason behind my mood off and when I changed the topic she didnt ask me again. So can any1 give mr tips to ignore her and she should know that I am ignoring her so that may be she starts caring for me.. I really care for her and wanne be her friend for ever but she should care for me too, if she is not caring for me what should I do? I cant talk to her abt what I feel bcoz I feel shy telling some1 that I need their attention. please help me solve my problem.
2007-02-26 01:34:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You sound like a bit of a nightmare friend - if you want her help/advice/sympathy, you need to TELL her. She asked you THREE times what was wrong with you, and you did that flouncy "if you don't know, I'm not going to tell you" thing - she's not psychic! And if you are getting into such a tizz over her not understanding what's going on with you, then why on earth do you think that ignoring her is suddenly going to make her start caring for you? She'll probably decide that you're just too much like hard work. If you're really set on ignoring her, then put a big sign up saying "I am ignoring you until you show me that you care about me and I want to be your friend forever!" - no? Would that seem a little, oh, I don't know, CHILDISH?
2007-02-26 01:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some friends are just not good at reciprocating caring.
I used to have a pal who would always try to top everything that was happening to me. If I had a fever, she had a stomachache and was throwing up. If I had a bad day, she had a MUCH worse day. Then I felt the need to console her.
Friendship is a two-way street. You need to be willing to say you need time to talk about something that happened to you. Your friends need to be able to talk to you, too. But I suspect this is not the friend to do it with. I recommend you two become acquiantainces instead of good friends.
2007-02-26 01:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be rude but I have read your (and answered one) other question about the same subject. I think you need to grow up....
I know that is not helpful but you can't keep asking the same question in the desperate way you do and contradict yourself by saying you are ignoring your friend and then say you are desperate for her attention!
2007-02-26 03:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who wants a mood for a friend? How can you call her a friend when all you want her for is to give you attention, you owe her, big time. Sorry would be a good place to start, when you are grown up enough to have true friends you have to stop stamping your feet.
2007-02-26 04:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't really understand the question I think you are looking for more attention and don't feel loved
Tell her how you feel she may not be able to give you what you are looking for so you may need to split
2007-02-26 01:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by D D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may as well talk to her about this problem as opposed to ignoring her - that is pointless. Also, when someone says they want to be on their own - they mean it! It sounds to me that she just needs more space than you do - respect that.
2007-02-26 01:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by cobymox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in about 5 years you'll look back on this and piss yourself laughing
2007-02-26 01:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got lost in that question somewhere!
2007-02-26 01:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
part of growing up kiddo
2007-02-26 01:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by LadyK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋