Why the hell don't they change themselves!?!
2007-02-26 01:27:37 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ Lady in Pink ♥ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
And I'd rather read something than keep yakking all day long! :P
2007-02-26 01:28:04 · update #1
B/c there full of themselves and just don't get it. It's like talking to a brick trying to get them to understand.
2007-02-26 03:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first became a colicky infant and cried all the time and now's truthfully the kindest and maximum nicely-behaved individual i know, and that i contain adults in that assessment. As a infant she became actually the main desperately shy individual you have ever seen, to the point of being clinically determined with a sort of social rigidity sickness. Now she's have been given a huge group a buddies and the great catch 22 concern these days is which social invitation she has to instruct down. My 2nd became additionally quiet as an toddler and now, like your son, has morphed to comedian. i think of that's unquestionably a exceptionally straight forward transformation for some quiet young little ones; taking part in the situation of jester facilitates them experience time-honored while they seem to be a sprint traumatic. My third became a mellow infant and mellow youngster. So unpredictability is unpredictable! And my fourth became a very common infant and is now at 3 giving me gray hairs. i'm no longer able to even proportion the checklist of all the hardship he's made interior the final week by way of fact it might basically be too embarrassing.....
2016-09-29 22:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by lichtenberger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, that could be an over generalization. I'm pretty talkative but I have some friends who are quiet...actually downright stoic, saying maybe 5 words a day. Usually when the 'quiet ones' get to talkin' I'm all ears because some of the things they choose to say and share are just so hysterical, provoking and insightful. I love the quiet ones...because I know that when they do choose to speak it's usually going to be a treat. Then of course you have the 'quiet ones' that are closet motor mouths who come of their shell depending on who they are with....it's still all good, especially when the 'quiet one' stops and has this little realiztion that they have been talking for 20 minutes straight with out blinking or stopping for oxygen.....then they say 'wow, I'm talking too much, huh?' That always sends me into hysterics and I love them even more for it. Quiet = observant and they usually have much more substance to what they are saying. Who would want to change that lovely trait? Not me.
2007-02-26 01:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
According to Keirsy (author of Please Understand Me, a book about "typing" people according to a certain grouping of characteristics) about 75% of the population is extroverted compared only 25% of us introverts. The extroverts just don't understand us and why we prefer solitude and quiet compared to noisy company. They thrive on their interactions with others and spending time surrounded by people charges their inner self. They feel very alone when not surrounded by others.
Us introverts thrive on our down-time. Time alone to contemplate ourselves or our day is what charges our battery and we feel most alone in a crowd.
Extroverts just don't understand how we can enjoy our quiet time...
Neither of us should change, though. It's just how we are, and that's just fine.
2007-02-26 01:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Extroverts don't always understand introverts. It's a common flaw. They just can't understand why anyone wouldn't want to talk ALL of the time. Just tell them that it's sometimes better to listen in silence than to only listen to your own voice.
2007-02-26 01:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are the ones who are usually full of themselves. They think they're the coolest thing since sliced bread. My brother is one of these people, and I find that even other people who aren't the "quiet type" get annoyed by him very easily. So I am perfectly content being more laid back.
2007-02-26 01:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by dark is rising 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree! i am the quiet one out of me and my sister and everyone has always said why cant you be more like her shes so confident and so talkative and you just sit there withyour nose in a book and blush when someone speaks to you. this was when i was younger of course but im still quiet, although i have much more confidence in myself now.
can you imagine a world filled with everybody being loud!!! a horrible thought-if you are always talking how can you listen?
2007-02-26 01:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by louie3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they always feel self conscious.
That's why they talk a lot.
I agree with you about the book - me too.
I always talk a lot when I am nervous.
Don't EVER sit next to me on an aeroplane - I never shut up!
2007-02-26 01:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have nothing better to do. They talk a lot which means they run out of things to say which means they rag on the quiet ones. =D
2007-02-26 01:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
More talkative people like for people to talk back to them so that they can have even more to talk about.
2007-02-26 01:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋