im 15 and a guy.a few weeks ago i had a crush on a girl. that ended and i saw something cant remember what and im worried if im gay. i get aroused when i see girls and all but im scared cos everytime i see a guy whether ugly or good looking i get this kinda weird feeling. its like nervousness. im starting to get really worried and dont know what to do. im wondering if i am just curious
2007-02-26 01:25:12 · 7 answers · asked by akkyiq 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
curious about other guys i mean. is this normal?
2007-02-26 01:37:42 · update #1
people have said try it out to my question. what exactly do u mean by that?
2007-02-26 02:03:28 · update #2
you saw something that made you worried that you are gay but you can't remember what? yes, you are confused. you are probably straight or possibly bisexual. I would not say that you are gay based on the information you gave...maybe just some curiosity or nervousness about male-male relationships (sexual or platonic).
2007-02-26 01:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You in the "Cross-over" phase, where every teenage boy has to acknowledge that they are no longer boys. From your elementary school onwards you developed this habit of NOT liking girls. It would be considered sissy in those early years to say that you did, you see.
Now that you are almost an adult, you have to start thinking differently. It is a fairly new concept for you. So rather than dealing with the inevitable, you are holding on to old habits or avoiding the change by hiding behind this "curiosity" syndrome (Am I gay or what?). It is an unconscious and perfectly normal reaction. Most boys your age go through this dilemma. Trust me.You are just looking for ways to delay your true declaration that you actually do like girls but have not figured out how best to accept this.
2007-02-26 10:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15, it could be a phase. I'm 15 and don't like girls at all, in fact, seeing those Girls Gone Wild commercials makes me have to pee. XD Anyway, it could be a phase, which is sounds like it might be. Just let things run their course and if you do turn out gay, accept it, you'll be a lot happier than if you didn't.
2007-02-26 09:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why seek to define yourself? You have a lifetime ahead of you to experience likes and dislikes.
2007-02-26 09:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say u are curious just try it out and u will find out for sure
2007-02-26 09:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is prolly a face ur going through...try it out and see how u really feel
2007-02-26 09:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by sexylezbian956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your curious...
2007-02-26 09:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋