enough said from my question.
im scared that if i tell my parents they will be really mad at me.
as im the only child,i know they won't chase me out from the house.
also another thing,i will wonder what will happen to my boyfriend?
my parents just might called our private bodyguards and beat him up..i know that will happen because it has happen to my ex boyfriend...and the reason was he sneaked in the house middle of the night......
neways,shud i tell my parents?
2007-02-26 01:12:41 · 20 answers · asked by noty_azlyn 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
enough said from my question.
im scared that if i tell my parents they will be really mad at me.
as im the only child,i know they won't chase me out from the house.
also another thing,i will wonder what will happen to my boyfriend?
my parents just might called our private bodyguards and beat him up..i know that will happen because it has happen to my ex boyfriend...and the reason was he sneaked in the house middle of the night......
neways,shud i tell my parents?
p/s:im 16
2007-02-26 01:52:26 · update #1
Well if you are pregnant and you live with them you have no choice but to tell them!
Unless you are getting an abortion of course, otherwise how are they not going to find out?
2007-02-26 01:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to start putting your babies needs ahead of your own. Time to step out of the drama of boyfriends, bodyguards and what if this, what if that....and into the real world. Being a mom is a not easy. Any support you get from your parents would be a tremendous help no matter what you decide, you dont want to go through this alone. If they are hard headed and want you to leave, call the nearest women's shelter....and join a church hun, they have a world of resources and can find you a mentor, a mom, who can help you. Look into the organization MOPS (mothers of pre-schoolers). God Bless
Please remember.....though this is hard work and a little frightening, babies are always blessings! they are good news!!
Your parents may take a little time to get used to the idea, but they are about to be grandparents....and nothing beats it!
2007-02-26 02:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how your feeling. I'm pregnant and only seventeen. Worst of all I'm the youngest girl. I think it would be wise to tell your parents for your childs safety. There is so many things that can go wrong and it's important to get your monthly check ups. I thought my father would dis-own me, but he took it a lot better than I thought. Something that might ease it up is show them you are taking responsibility for your actions.
2007-02-26 01:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by vinillah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out for sure if you are pregnant or not. Do a test. You may be worrying over nothing. Then you really have to tell you parents, they will find out eventually, it will never be an easy conversation and putting it of really won't make it any easier.
Regarding their treatment of you boyfriend. Point out to them that is was consensual sex and you are just as responsible as he is for the situation.
2007-02-26 01:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are really pregnant.. before you start something that will hurt you and your family. Make an appt with the local health unit and confirm that you are pregnant and then go from there.. if you are not pregnant.. then ask them to help you get a birth control. Good luck.
2007-02-26 01:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure, 2d they will know once your body changes, 3rd any violence against your boyfriend is illegal. Your parents may reconsider trading their freedom for a prison cell. Also remind him he is the father of their grandchild and harming him may not sit well with their grandchild in the future.
2007-02-26 02:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really are pregnant, there is gonna be no way to hide it in a few months darling. Although, my cousin did and I really don't know how she pulled it off, but if you are pregnant, they are going to know at some point. Why not get it over with now?
2007-02-26 01:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by kameronzmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT 16 you really have no choice but to tell your parents. You will need medical care and a lot of support so you need to tell them.
2007-02-26 02:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, your going to need to tell your parents eventually and its better to tell them now then later.. i hope your boyfriend is going to stay with you if that is the case.. and how old are you??but anyways you gotta think of a way to let them know easily... just sit down and think you may end up answering your own question
2007-02-26 01:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell your parents. If you thought you were adult enough to have sex, you should stand in front of your parents like a woman and tell them the news.
2007-02-26 03:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by polarbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋