I had a misscarriage nearly 2 months ago, i got pregnant straight away and now are roughly between 6 - 7 weeks. I am a very anxious person who worries so so much. I no it is bad for the baby. what can i do to stop. x
2007-02-26 00:35:52 · 12 answers · asked by lorra 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I hope you didn't read what that sick woman wrote! My first pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage and now I have three adorable children, 2girls and a boy. Many women miscarry in their first pregnancy. I feel your pain, I really do but this is a different pregnancy. I don't know how far pregnant you were with your first baby and I don't know if you had a medical condition, but I think that after 3mnths (12weeks) the chances of you losing the baby are very slim, you are almost there!! Eat well, sleep well and be happy! you have a new life inside of you. Try meditation Cd's, yoga and swimming! Good luck and enjoy your pregnancy. xx
2007-02-26 01:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by buttercup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are the things that make you worry ? Is it finance, work or the fact that you might miscarry again ? Try to categorise what your problems are and sort them out one by one. Sometimes doing something about your worries or even just talking to a friend can make the worries seem a whole lot smaller. Also talk to your doctor about your worries about having another miscarriage. They should be able to reassure you that everything's ok. If you don't get any joy from your doc, change. Go to pregnancy help groups. There should be someone out there to talk to. Maybe your midwife. Head down to your local library or get some books on pregnancy. They could give you some ideas on whats ahead of you. This is a worrying time for you but remember there are a lot of women like you out there, so your not alone. Good luck and I hope everything goes well for you this time x
2007-02-26 00:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by sonj75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way. I wasn't until I had spotting at week 6. Now at week 19 I just want to go & get an ultra sound or fetal heart monitor test every week. I know it's tough to calm down. But just try to relax. It's not good to put undue stress on yourself & in turn the baby.
Just take each sign of pregnancy as a good thing. If you're sick, baby's ok...if you're gaining weight, baby's ok...If you're having fluttering...baby's ok.
You just have to believe that your body is doing what it's supposed to do.
& what is it w/ these nasty people responding in nasty ways! People, don't you have compassion!?!
2007-02-26 00:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy. I'm a worry wart too! It runs in my family. I just keep myself busy with work or school or even just chores around the house. I'll go running or practice my music or something...
As for the miscarriage, I'm very sorry for your loss. I've never had one, but my mom did and she told me how difficult it was to get through. She had a miscarriage after she had me. But maybe it will help you to know that after her miscarriage, she had four more healthy children!
Don't give up hope. Keep yourself busy. Good luck and congratulations!
2007-02-26 01:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
worry is caused by the individual.... if you don't want to worry about something, then don't... plain and simple... it may be a hard habit to break, but once you do, everything will be sunny...
just remember these items
can you control the situation
yes= then do something about it... get a mop and clean up the spilled milk
no = move on to something else
can you influence a situation
yes= then do something about it ... ask your neighbor to clean up the milk and offer a reward
no= move on to something else
if you cannot control and you cannot influence.. then don't worry about it.... simple
worrying is basically caused by the inability to rationalize on a situation with the inability to make a decision followed by procrastination.. so in a nut shell make a decision...if you are right.. great.. if you are wrong..ok..just don't make the same decision again
2007-02-26 00:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by wolfwagon2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn the art of relaxation. get some music that relaxes you and that you enjoy. have a nice bath and then lay yourself down on your bed. take some deep breaths and then listen to the music.
ask your midwife about some relaxation classes
2007-02-26 01:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find things to keep your mind active, get ur partner 2 give u a massage, listen 2 some calming music
2007-02-26 01:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say enroll in a yoga class, meet other women who are pregnant there and get your mind off of how well your baby is doing and give your baby some wellness...believe that god has blessed you with another child and just love him or her.
2007-02-26 00:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by suzi_syk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something to keep your mind occupied so you're not always thinking about the baby. i know its hard i'm 6 weeks perg. and have the same worries.
2007-02-26 00:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by island_chick21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi tjere worrier?lol, simple things are? take deep breaths, and what a tell a lot of folk? just stop and think?take care, derek
2007-02-26 00:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋