I have a sister who is a complete tomboy. She dresses in baggy pants, t-shirts, and doesnt do her hair or put on make up. We go to the same school and i know people talk about her behind her back and make fun of her. I want to tell her that she needs to start acting like a girl but, i dont no how to. Any suggestings?
2007-02-26 00:34:47 · 11 answers · asked by starxgirl89 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Let your sister be what she wants to be. You should wonder about yourself though: why so much urgency to conform to others?
2007-02-26 00:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by remy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yo yo yo
I am a tomboy and i am nearly 14...i am completely boyish. I can't help that i act like that. I hang around the boys and always play football at lunchtime. Some people at school think i am a boy because i have short hair, no make up etc... it is startin to annoy me. And yes they probz talk behind my back..but i dont care if they do. Coz i wouldn't change for anyone, or anything. So unless she really wants to don't don't persuade her to act like a girl. It just isn't her. I don't know if u should tell her about these rumours. If she quite hardcore and tough then u probz can. If it was me i would want to know so then i could kick their butt haha. Maybe these people r sayin things behind her back because they are jealous as the boys get on better with your sister than them.
anyway cyaz dude
2007-02-27 04:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by will_youngz_number1_fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be who she wants to be, don't go forcing her to become another you. As long as she's happy and comfortable with who she is, that is all that matters. Instead of trying to change her, why don't you stick up for her when people talk about her behind her back???
I've been a tomboy all my life and didn't learn to love dressing up until I was near my 30s - without anyone forcing it on me.
2007-02-26 00:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am 47 years old. I am a tomgirl. I do not like lace & sparkles. I havent worn a dress in 22 years. I dont even own one.lol. Everyone is different. INDIVIDUAL. UNIQUE. It doesnt matter what other people say. She sounds like the kind of person I would get along with very well. I am a female electrician & married to the love of my life! Dont try to change her........
2007-02-26 00:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's in basic terms a factor. i used to be a super tomboy and now i'm super female. save her manners up and make her atleast consult from females. i'd say artwork something out with your mom because of the fact she will make her do issues. Atleast make her swap to non-scented guy's deo (i comprehend many very female females that placed on guy's deoderant, even the scented, so it is not that vast of a deal) and save her hair long. you extremely desire to permit her be her. She'll advance out of it as quickly as she starts liking boys. in case you have reason to be extremely in contact, you ought to continuously pay a female off at college to hit on her. whether it may well be something lots extra advantageous than in basic terms desirous to be a guy. She would have some insecurities or something solid happening emotionally that makes her strikes the way they're. you ought to objective to locate that out and help her out. yet do not tension her to placed on pink each and all of the time.
2016-10-16 12:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all stick up for your sister at school.. then when you both are home tell her about some of the things that people say about her... if she doesnt want to change dont make her.. yea it would be nice to have your sister act like a girl and dress like one to but if she is happy then it shouldnt matter...
2007-02-26 00:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well with some people the phase just go away thats all it iz a phase some people soon grow out of it and some people dont ....obviously ur sister doesnt care what people think...if she did she would have changed the way she iz ...just let her be her ur supposed to love her reguardless
2007-02-26 00:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by jazzmyn b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is a tomboy too, as I was growing up. Nothin wrong with it. Kids are cruel, let em talk...sticks and stones... tell the people who talk about her to leave her alone and let her be who she wants to be.
2007-02-26 00:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your sister has the right idea -- who the hell cares what a bunch of teenagers think of her? In ten years, she is going to be doing what SHE wants, instead of being a slave to what's trendy. Leave her alone.
2007-02-26 00:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
try giving her tips. but if she doesnt sound interested in what ur saying leave her alone. she wants to do her own thing and will prob eventually grow out of it (i did)
2007-02-26 00:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋