I want to date/marry a Black man that is educated like me, and comes from a middle class family. He has to be a college bound and he has to be intelllgent and funny. And he can't have any kids by any other woman, he has to be open to new things, and he has to accept me as an intelligent woman.
2007-02-26 00:34:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
He better not have a prison record and he has to be used to me being the bread winner sometimes
2007-02-26 00:35:05 · update #1
It's actually EXTREMELY easy...the thing is, black women are always looking in the wrong places. You'll look for an "educated black man" at the club on a Saturday night and then get frustrated and take what you can get....black women take these grill-wearing, wannabe thugs because they figure they can't do any better. Intelligent and articulate black men are everywhere. You just have to look for them in the right places and MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! Don't sit there and think "I hope that fine intelligent brotha over there comes to talk to me."
Also, I don't think his class should have anything to do with your standards. There are intelligent funny poor men, middle-class men, and rich men.
2007-02-26 00:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I understand what you mean, many black men are hard to find nowadays, I'm educated , without a prison record, but I'm already taken. My daughter says the same thing as you. I don't know what will happen with her in the future. Black men aren't like they use to be. Alot of educated black men go for white women or other races, simply because they think they're to good for a black woman. (My close black friends are like that.) I'm not.
2007-02-26 08:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
it's not that hard to find a good black man. I've found and we've been dating for 6 yrs.
2007-02-26 08:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Pea 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am right here! I am in college and have no kids maybe you are not looking hard enough!
2007-02-26 08:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Assad 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Haa. It's not hard to find a good black man but to find any good men. lol
2007-02-26 08:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Its NOT! lol!
you're either ugly... or have a very bad attitude. :) Believe me, finding a good black man is So not hard.
2007-02-26 10:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just keep looking I'm sure there is one out there that meets your standards.
2007-02-26 14:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by prettyting 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its hard to find a good man period. i've been looking for one too, but where are they all? where i am from, its hard to find A good man period. and its not big where i am from so its harder.
2007-02-26 08:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
yummygood is right. Keep looking, I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for.
2007-02-26 08:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
good luck ull find someone eventually
2007-02-26 08:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋