2007-02-26 00:24:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It would help if you said how old you were. If you are peri menopausal or menopausal its because your estrogen levels have decreased. It is not unusual for woman over 45 to feel this way. Also, regardless of age depression, stress and post natal hormone changes can also lessen your desire. Then there is that feeling that the fire has gone out as mentioned by another poster. Many things can cause these feelings. You need to speak with a doctor. Good Luck
2007-02-26 00:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by st.lady (1 of GitEm's gang) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lost of sex drive is actually quite common in women. There are some possible causes for this including, anemia, alcoholism, depression, stress,anxiety. There are a number of things that can cause this. It doesn't mean you love him any less or don't desire him sexually. Have you talked to your doctor. It can be put right, but you need to look carefully at the causes of the problem – preferably with the loving cooperation of your partner. There aren’t usually any ‘quick fixes'. Good Luck!!
2007-02-26 00:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by WillsBroncoGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm not sure what planet "shelby" is on! Wow,there's some really challenged people out there.
Anyway, It sounds like you need to be honest with yourself about your underlying feelings here. Are you unhappy about other things in your relationship? If you've been married a long time it's natural for things to 'slow down' Think carefully about how you feel and try and talk to him about this.
Sometimes we rush around living separate lives almost, getting caught up with everyday stress and we can't turn our feelings off and on just because we've hot half an hour to fit sex in to the day. Take some time out to just spend time together, lie together, be close. Things are more likely to happen naturally and more enjoyably. Don't panic or you'll just get thing out of proportion, the more you worry the worse it seems.
Good Luck.
2007-02-26 00:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-14 06:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by jeniffer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first ask yourself Do you still want to have sex, just not with your husband? If so maybe you need to look at your relationship. If not and you don't want to have sex at all then maybe you need to see your doc. Your hormones may be off a little.
2007-02-26 00:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by txmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you and him need to try new things. do something wild like have sex in the movies, or a restroom some where, outside in the car maybe...be different, Very different. new positions wouldnt hurt either. just act like your 16 or17 again and you want to sneak around with your boyfriend, what you gone do, do a little of role-play....use food, have a threesome, just try something
2007-02-26 00:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Deonte S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three things: job stress, boredom and unresolved anger. These can play havoc with the best of sex lives
2007-02-26 00:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off...how old are you? unfortunately, men and women don't mesh when it comes time for sex. boys start thinking about sex the minute they feel a cool breeze pass by them...girls on the other hand.... well...we are not interested at that age... then the boys become well MEN..(in a sense) and we, women.... again, the feel of the cool breeze makes them want it more.... then around 30 we women are like ALL RIGHT.. this sex stuff ain't so bad..... so we have few good years thinking we KNOW it all.... we try this and that and then we women grow older and ENJOY IT MUCH MORE.... as do the men...then in our mid 40's we are like AWESOME!!! and the men are like oh...you want what where???? so like i said.... depending on your age...you could just be going through one of those stages. my husband of 30 years told me YEARS ago...YOU'RE GONNA BE SORRY.... ONE DAY...YOU'RE GONNA WANT IT AND I'M NOT... and damn it he was correct. sooooooooooo depending on your situation.... it could just be age....
OH GEEZE. say its just not MY situation.... ha ha ha ha)
2007-02-26 00:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Joannie W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could be coming into menopause. My mother said when she started her sex drive went down.
2007-02-26 01:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you find an answer as I can totally relate
2007-02-26 00:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by drivershunnyhunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋