going great until now he been acting funny the last this we talked it was last wednesday and he was like can i call you tommorow so i can crack on you and i like but you dont have to go to wotk the next day and you can sleep all day thursday. [ I mean i thought that i was a really good friend im nice, respectful, care about other people but i guess that was not enough.] I know that i did not do anything wrong because i told him if i said or do anything to hurt your feelings come to me and tell me } Then he called me saturday about four times i thought to myself that it was a pity call a cry f5r help call me up so i can entertain him i look at the phone and tossed it to the side. Any body out there who has been in my place give your input and help me out because i am lost both guys and girls.
2007-02-26 00:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by jazzyjqween 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
MAYBE YOU'RE MAKING TOO MUCH OUT OF NOTHING. YOU'RE TRYING TO READ BETWEEN THE LINES. JUST ACCEPT AS FACE VALUE, NOTHING MORE, NOTHING LESS...LET YOUR FRIEND BE A FRIEND.
2007-02-26 00:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're overthinking the things that have been happening..
Take everything at face value first.. don't read between the lines you're just gonna go nuts by the what ifs in your head..
well lemme insert some "more stuff to think about" considering you've thought about this a lot..
first.. he may be acting funny coz he likes you.. don't assume yet.. getting assuming about stuff like these could lead to embarassment..
SECOND.. (which i think is right on the money..) he could be having problems and he doesn't have anyone to talk to about it.. he only has you.. and he can't really tell you coz you've just been friends for seven months and he may be shy..
well whatever it is..
BE A GOOD FRIEND.. that's what you're claiming to be.. so don't ignore him.. find out what's bugging him..
2007-02-26 00:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by crushmybones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the lad a break..after seven months you been an item so maybe he does have things to do that don't include you..that just the way things are..and if you have something that does not involve him..do likewise..just don't come off as too needy
2007-02-26 00:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DIDNT DO NOTHING BUT BE NICE TO HIM LIKE I SAID BEFOR DONT ELT THESE MEN CONFUSE YOU YOU KNOW YOU ARE A NICE PERSON AND ALL SO WHY LET HIM MAKE YOU QUESTION IT SOUNDS LIKE HE IS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE ANYWAY MOVE ON A SAVE YOURSELF FROM A HEARTBREAK
2007-02-26 00:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just overstressing about this situation. If he's gonna be like that then you can avoid him.. he's not worth ur while. He doesnt deserve you... let him make his mistakes and let him fall down.... help him when he realizes his mistakes
2007-02-26 00:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by midnight515 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot make head or tail out of your question.
2007-02-26 00:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants sex.
2007-02-26 00:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋