2007-02-25 23:52:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want to have children because I love kids, and I have always had the mother instinct in me.
2007-02-25 23:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't "decide" to have my daughter. She just showed up. I don't EVER regret her. When I married her stepdad and he adopted her I was working in a daycare. I love children and wanted at least two more. After 6 miscarriages (including 1 tubal pregnancy) and a whole lot of crying, we gave up trying and just hoped it would happen. After 11 years, I have never been pregnant again. We ultimately divorced, in part because I was a wreck from not having another one. I still hope to have one more with the man I am with now, but I'm at a point now that if I don't, I still have my daughter and his three kids.
2007-02-26 09:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children are your legacy to your life and family line. They are your immortality. I had so much love to give and my husband (ex now) couldn't take all of it, so we decided to have a child. We only had one and I can't have any more. She is a blessing and I wouldn't trade her for anything in the world. She is 12 now and she is not rude or a problem child like most I have seen. We do have our disagreements, but she knows I am her mom and what I say goes. If you raise them up right then you don't have to worry about any problems. So don't look at other people's kids and worry that yours (if you are trying to decide to have one) will be just as bad. You are the one who makes them who they are.
2007-02-26 08:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Amber C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I felt as though my life was meagerly existing.... my partner and i would go to work, work long hours and then come home again too buggered to do anything... i felt that there was no point to the way we were living, the money we were earning was being spent on unimportant things and i was rapidly becoming less and less enthused about my career. bringing a child into the world gave me a purpose.. we feel complete now....... we have two children and are planning another one soon
2007-02-26 07:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by pinkchampagne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just love children and always wanted to assist the maker in creation. I have 2 adorable boys now and I still wish to meet my little girl some day.
2007-02-26 08:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you a long list of reasons why I decided never to have children.
2007-02-26 07:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im married so I decide to have a children...In married relationship child is the most important to both partners....The family well become successful and happy if their is a child...
2007-02-26 08:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by edsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The tests came up positive! With both my kids (and a 3rd one I lost) we were not trying and were using birth control but luckily for us it didn't work those times. I wouldn't trade them for anything!
2007-02-26 08:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife and i wanted our own little family unit best thing we ever did have 2 great daughters and loads of happy,fun memories tough times are well worth it too
2007-02-26 09:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't , my wife did and I was a very willing participant
2007-02-26 08:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋