I still live with my ex....we have our own rooms...Its just that we have a nice place and dont want to let it go....we get along very well and dont want to change that....I am however dating some one who thinks I should move......what do you think?
2007-02-25 23:32:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-02-25 23:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by david j 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would also depend on if your new love has met your ex. If they get along and neither is the overly jealous type, stay where you are til your new relationship has shown promise of lasting. If your ex can handle your new love, and seems cool with it, maybe they can meet and it will reassure the new one that all is well. There is always a risk of falling back into old habits but that can happen whether you are still there or not.
2007-02-26 08:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by Brent W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it's better to listen to your new date. It's a little awkward that ex's live together, it will cause problems, and you never know, you might do something stupid with your ex, and your date finds out, so I suggest you move out, but stay friends with your ex, friendships can be very rewarding.
2007-02-26 07:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If and when your relationship changes as to where you and your new beau are ready to get a place of your own together, fine. As for now I see no reason for you to move.
2007-02-26 07:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
our motto, with my current boy friend the best place for exes-- is out a 22 story window have a safe landing. case close ed. dont--forget too yell out as your pushing exes out a 22 story window have a safe landing.
2007-02-26 08:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are his reasons for wanting you to move? Is it because you're sharing or because you're sharing with your ex?
My view is discuss and (hopefully) come to an agreement with your new love as to what you should do. You want to stay (why?) he wants you to move out (why?) look for middle ground.
2007-02-26 07:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't move.......... !
My will is something sorted with his wish.
Muse not that I thus suddenly proceed,
For what I will, I will, and there an end.
- William Shakespeare,
The Two Gentlemen of Verona
(Antonio at I, iii)
2007-02-26 07:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should think for yourself and if this arrangement is working out, then stay if you want to.
2007-02-26 09:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can manage it, good. I would think it would be odd, but everyone's situation is different.
2007-02-26 08:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kedar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say don't move and just go with your heart.
2007-02-26 09:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋