help wat should i do~!!!!
2007-02-25 22:54:14 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
dude... go for it !
2007-02-25 23:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mohannad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be from a country that allows such things. Not really able to give a good answer to that one in this day and age. I would not have done it (and I had some great looking cousins) but I was not raised in a place where that sort of thing was allowed anyway. This is a biggie for you as you could get into all sorts of family trouble if you refuse. Yet I can see where you may not want to do this as it is your life and your religion I think. I guess talking to your parents, and other around you would be hard too. Good luck.
2007-02-25 23:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by redhotboxsoxfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According both to human and children rights wherever you live, whatever your sex, age or religion is no one can legally make you marry against your will. If it is done illegally somehow you're automatically getting divorced after your first request and without any financial consequences. This means you've got several options: First - your parents understand they're breaking the law and you're not going to marry. Second - your parents understand they're breaking the law but still force you to marry, in this case you call to the social agency and tell them your situation, the agent arrives and you're not going to marry once again. Third - the worst one, your parents understand they're breaking the law, they force you to marriage, you marry, then you go to the court and getting divorced. Yup, teens can show the power of law too.
Hope it was helpful!
Good luck!
2007-02-26 00:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should objective to settle this marriage, even you like a divorce, jointly as a substitute of dragging this remember to a civil courtroom. you haven't any longer reported the place to procure married, no remember if in India or UAE. If in India you should document the case in a courtroom in India merely and extra effective to be contained in the jurisdiction of your place city. Secondly, the justifications you will point out searching for a divorce ought to be a substantiative one. no longer that he's not a accountable husband, too lots be counted on his father, lazy fellow, and so forth., and so forth. do no longer carry reliable formerly the regulation. Thirdly, i don't be attentive to the form you have taken certainly one of those drastic decision of having married 2nd time to a guy or woman who's not extra wholesome to be a husband of you or anybody (i've got been given this clue out of your write-up itself). i'm no longer a criminal expert yet from specific sensible understanding I had given suggestion to you. do no longer take this as a very final answer.
2016-12-18 11:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what country are you in? And if you are in the states.. you will not be allowed to marry a 1st or 2nd cousin. I honestly do not believe in arranged marriages.. I believe we should marry for Love. So hope things work out.
2007-02-26 00:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave home, get a job, go to college build your own life your own future. Soon a s you turn 16 they have no legal right over you and you can be free. I would personally i would start off by getting a job and living in a shared house where is cheap rent. Then study p/t on an evening etc.. Good luck xx
2007-02-25 23:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your parents that you will not marry your cousin and that you will find your future husband yourself. You have to say to them that it is your choice on who you want to marry and not theirs. I am 25 and if my parents were ever to plan an arranged marriage for me, I would say NO right in front of their face and mean it. I will not marry anyone my parents arranged for me. You should do that because it will be your future. Whoever you get married with, you will have to live with him for the rest of your life. Remember, it will be your life, not theirs.
2007-02-26 01:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether this is illegal where you live or not. You need to ask a trusted teacher or adult for help. Many places first cousin marriages are not permitted, but more distant ones are and some places they are permitted.
2007-02-25 22:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? This is crazy. And not to mention ILLEGAL. Thats disgusting. Your kids would be malformed most likely. Your parents need some help. Are they related other than through marriage? I would flat out refuse, tell them where to stick it and take off. You have one screwed up family. Good luck with this one. Hope all works out for you.
2007-02-26 01:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that your custom where your from and if you have reservations about that you need to speak now. If they love you they have your best interests at heart. They may have picked her with certain things in mind. If you are westernizing and don't wish for an arrainged marriage you may alienate yourself from your family. Think carefully.
2007-02-25 22:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple! You are grown up! Talk to them, explain them why you don't want to marry your cousin and try to convince them. I'm sure they're gonna listen to you! All the best!
2007-02-25 22:59:26 · answer #11 · answered by Paani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋