2007-02-25 22:44:53 · 30 answers · asked by jg12098 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh this should be fun!!!
2007-02-25 22:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by looby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I have I was 16 he was 24 and I regret it to this very day even though it has been almost 20 years ago it caused the couple to divorce because he was with me when she went into labor and had their child,I did not know her or know she was pregnant but that is no excuse he was married,I was not an adult,but I have lived with the guilt of being a home wrecker for 20 years he was my first and last married man.I would advise against becoming the other woman,even though i never would see him again even after the divorce because he could not be trusted if he would cheat on his pregnant wife,he would cheat on me.If you are thinking of an affair with a married man don't do it think about your self esteem,your values and your morals.
2007-02-26 00:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why even think about it.....
does anyone ever really win in these situations?
Oh let me guess....things are so bad at home when I am with you I think of nothing but you...sooo stress free...the life we could have together (three years later you are still hearing the same story...and wait there is another baby on the way, its just not the right time to leave)
No Holidays together because of the family and the children...you are left sitting on the sidelines.....and wait....
he does decide to leave her.....and now you are the one sitting at home and wondering every time he leaves the house.....even if its just to wash the car or maybe visit his kids...you know from the first marriage that you help destroy.....
Okay....just my thoughts.....save yourself the trouble.....You can do better then this>>>>>>>
Best wishes
2007-02-25 23:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
having an affair to a married man or woman is a NO,NO.you're not only ruining your own reputation but you also become a home wrecker. Sorry to say this, but its not a good idea to have a relationship with a married individual, specially when they were still living together.
Just an advice.
2007-02-25 22:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by rheza(*__*) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, when I was younger, yes I did. I heard all the same lines that married people give: She doesn't treat me right, She's lazy, I wish I had met you first, blah blah blah.
I fully regret what I did, and deserve anything bad his wife has to say about me. It wasn't worth it and was a stupid mistake, that I certainly have never, and will never make again.
BTW: If anyone wants to give me a thumbs down for having an affair with a married man, you go right ahead, but perhaps you should evaluate your own lives and determine if you think you should be beat down for the rest of your life for any mistake you made. At least I admitted what I did was very wrong, and got out of it.
2007-02-25 23:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
i have not had an affair i was on the receiving end of the heartache of his affair, i do not know how they are doing, but i do think she wanted alot and wanted the life she thought i had, the house, the pool, etc...however i do not think she got it. most of the time the man always goes back home, after he gets tired of the mistress, unless the wife divorces him. your just fooling yourself if u think u have anyone special here, all u got is a cheating man, who will soon find in u the same faults he found in his wife.
2007-02-25 22:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
yes but am i happy about it HELL no but if i would have known he was married i would have never went there i dont think it is right to bust up a family it is not a good idea it hurts others and your self and i wont go there again and if you are going there get out of it its not worth it and you could get really hurt there is enough single guys out there that can give you the same thing a married guy can give you maybe even more good luck and be safe
2007-02-26 00:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, don't do it. I've read your other question and the whole situation is wrong. How many times do you think he's tried this kind of thing on? He works the door for god sake! I'll guarantee he does it all the time. Apart from his poor wife you're likely to get hurt too. Let your head win on this one! He's hardly good relationship material, even if you did get together do you really think you could trust him - look what he's doing to his wife with you!
2007-02-25 22:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Flossie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did a couple of times...back when I had no conscience and didn't care if anyone got hurt. I am not like that now.
I learned the hard way.
People can get killed doing that....the wife caught us...and she pulled out a knife...she came there to kill us both.
It's a long story....but I know...one moment in time with another woman's husband.{isn't worth it}. HE is the one who is the Bad guy...NOT HER....he is the cheat.
and the lair.
Some women believe what a cheat says who is lying to his wife all his family....and they think he does not lie to them....get a life.
That kind of living WILL end in either Tragedy or...and HEARTBREAK.
Men or women who do that don't have a heart...they are one thing for sure SELFISH and UNCARING.
2007-02-25 23:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Not knowingly! He told me he was divorced and even brought his little boy round my flat! One day,while the little boy was out with his mum,he pointed to my door and said,'That's where my other mummy lives!' That night she broke my door down intent on attacking me. Once she realized I had no idea he was married,we had a long chat-and phoned him to tell him so! That was when I was in my early 20's-I've been much more carefulk about guys since then!
2007-02-26 01:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, briefly and to my defence I didn't know he was married to start with and I did end it shortly after I found out. Save yourself the heartache, if he cheats on his wife he won't leave her for you or if he did he's chat on you to. Find a nice guy that will be honest to you and treat you the way you deserve. They are hard to find but they are out there.
2007-02-26 01:28:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋